Turtlelover28 Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 If you have casual sex with someone for the first time, of knowning him for 3 days, of course by now maybe he views the female as being easy for giving it up so soon, can there ever be a relationship with him or does he now just view the female as a quick sex object.
tomwiz Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 although me and my current gf are on the rocks, we "hooked" up basically everything but the first night we hung out. While I was kind of put off by that, i stuck around long enough to realize that prolly was not typical and sought a relationship with her
Phateless Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 It just depends. Hang out with him again and see... I'm not really sure how to proceed from here. Good luck.
uniqueone Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 although me and my current gf are on the rocks, we "hooked" up basically everything but the first night we hung out. While I was kind of put off by that, i stuck around long enough to realize that prolly was not typical and sought a relationship with her There's steam coming out of my ears reading this...... You were put off by it? But it was ok for you to do it? But then you thought she was ok because she didn't do it all the time. But it's ok if you did it all the time....... Now let's all say it together, shall we: D-O-U-B-L-E---S-T-A-N-D-A-R-D
Kamille Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 There's steam coming out of my ears reading this...... You were put off by it? But it was ok for you to do it? But then you thought she was ok because she didn't do it all the time. But it's ok if you did it all the time....... Now let's all say it together, shall we: D-O-U-B-L-E---S-T-A-N-D-A-R-D D-O-U-B-L-E---S-T-A-N-D-A-R-D!!! Says the girl who is trying to figure out how resist a guy who can shamelessly and overtly be sexual so therefore she has to be the one to slow things down. Really, it drives me nuts. Why are women so vulnerable when it comes to sexuality? Why might having sex 'too soon' (and who knows what that means) influence how a man perceives a woman? But anyways, I digress. Turtlelover, with any luck your guy will be someone who sees you as a whole. If he doesn't, well then, you're better off without him.
Saxis Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Never been in this situation myself, so hard to say what I'd really do. I'd like to think that if I was interested enough to have sex with her that quickly, I'd definitely want to pursue a relationship. I could see believing that maybe she did this with guys all the time, and probably not wanting the relationship herself. Therefore, I might not pursue anything more...
Krytie TV Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 It's a DOUBLE STANDARD... and I LOVE it. It's nice being on the positive side of a double standard for a change. I'll take it every time. You women have your benefits and we have ours. Acceptance is the key to happiness.
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