pcastillo Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 I am a 45 year old man married with children. A few months ago a young 26 year old female came into my life and we became friends. From the very beginning there was chemistry between us but being that I am married it was understood that the relationship would always remain platonic. As time went by we were spending alot time together at work becoming closer but only innocent affection there was never anything more. One day my wife started getting anonymous phone calls from an unknown female who had a real issue about my relationship with this girl. My wife had been aware of this girl from the start and was not threatened. She was told by the caller that we were too close to be friends and that she should do something to get rid of this girl. I assured my wife that I am faithful and she had nothing to worry about and she believes me. On the last call my wife was told that if she did not act the female caller will. Suddenly, without warning my friend ended the ralation with me on the very week of this last call. My Friend told me that she ended the friendship because her intuition told her that I have feelings for her and even she was wrong that I should keep some distance. I never told my friend about the phone calls nor did she tell me if she was confronted by the caller. It really hurts to lose a good friend to gossip and I am lost about what I can do to recover this friendship. can anyone help? Thank you, Paul
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