Ohio_isforLovers Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Well i guess this question is up to the person. But would you still want or be attractive to a girl who had sex during the summer with a guy more then once and your thinking about going out with her or at least trying to see if there something there?
heartoutside Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Well just about everyone will have had sex with someone before they meet the "ONE." But if you think she just slept with guys to sleep with guys, then I would watch out.
Goodin Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Need more info...is this an ex girlfriend that you are considering getting back together with? Everyone has sex, it's part of life...I would not not go out with a girl just because she had sex this summer. Now if it it was an ex and we broke up recently like, in the spring, then now want to reconcile knowing she did some other guy, then that would be a hard thing to deal with but if I loved her I think the pain of that would go away in time. Just my opinion.
niceguy27 Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 When I first met my ex I told her right off the bat I dont care about anything she did in the past. Nobody is perfect so why should I hold anything over her? It is a great philosophy to follow.
Bosiell Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 I would never care too much with anything from a girls past. At my age it would be very naive of me to think that a girl I meet would have not a good many relationships in the past, short term or not. I would simply take her at face value. I am no saint myself either, but I know what a good heart I have
LakesideDream Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 If you don't learn to deal with what's happened in the past, you will never have a future to enjoy.
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