SouthernT Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 or warning signs? How many of us mistake the "giddy" feelings for "gut instinct" that you should turn away from that new person?
Fancee Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 If you truly are feeling a gut instinct that you should turn from that person- then you need to act on it. If its strong enough you can't ignore it. With aides out here and other things I wouldn't even be looking back.
Author SouthernT Posted October 10, 2007 Author Posted October 10, 2007 No, I mean is when they occupy your mind day and night. No matter what your doing, no matter how hard you try to find other things to focus on or other activities. I go to the gym...it doesnt help. I clean the house from top to bottom....it doesnt help. Call everybody in my cellphone (except him).....it doesnt help. Go see movies & go shopping....it doesnt help. I think it's amazing to have somebody on your mind and to have that "FEELING" for that person, and to that other person, you are simply entertainment for the time being. I'm 28 yrs old and I have never felt this before in my life until now. And to him, I'm just another chick, so I keep my distance and dont share my feelings.....WHO CAME UP WITH THIS THING CALLED LOVE ANYWAY?
Pentula77 Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 SouthernT, I've read some of your other posts and I think the guy ur refering to continually flakes on you (based on what uv said)...I think you must have low self esteem. If some one disrespects you like this this is not love... You need to recognise this and stop all contact with that person...I think you know this. If your gut was saying otherwise perhaps you need to establish your boundaires more and how you expect to be treated in the relationship. When your "in love" there should be no feelings of anxiety or fear of loss. You just love the person unconditionally. If they decide to leave you for some one else you still love them and want happiness for them. Cheers
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