thisisarandomperson Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Well i just went into my second year at uni, and during one of the sessions that i help first years on my course i met this nice exchange student. I'd like to get to know her better as i think she is quite nice, and i think she likes me too. I was wondering how fast do i take things? Im not really that experienced with dating girls as i haven't really seen many that interest me. So anyway, would you play it cool, and just text her every now and again for a few weeks then arrange a date or something? Or would you try and meet up with her regularly? I'd want to do the latter but of course i don't want to seem like im coming on too strong and scare her away! How many weeks would you spend getting to know someone, and then going on a date or something?
ls3360 Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 So she's a student of yours? Are you a "teacher's assistant"?
Ocean-Blue Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 There is no set rules on this. Take it at your own pace...but be mindful of how she reacts to what you do (if she seems a bit uncomfortable with too much texting/calling...then back off...but if she likes it, continue). I have gfs who hate it when their bfs (or guys they are dating) don't call everyday...and there are those that hate it. Try to figure her type out and act accordingly (w/out changing your usual habits too much).
Author thisisarandomperson Posted October 9, 2007 Author Posted October 9, 2007 So she's a student of yours? Are you a "teacher's assistant"? We're both students
Phateless Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 It REALLY depends on the girl. You just have to feel it out, bro. Any advice we give you is likely to backfire, as we don't know her. You do. What makes you think you're likely to scare her off? I've met some really conservative exchange students and some really aggressive ones, lol... btw, I dated a russian girl for 5 years
Author thisisarandomperson Posted October 9, 2007 Author Posted October 9, 2007 Well when i say scare her off, i mean coming on too strong. I dunno, i just heard that some girls don't want to be pressured into things and just want to take things slowly
Phateless Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 So why do you assume that's her? To be honest this sounds more like YOUR fear of rejection than anything else. Just go hang out with her. If you're going too fast she'll let you know, and most girls won't hold this against you. They're used to having the guy pursue them and them being the one to put on the brakes. Don't worry about it.
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