PollyIvy Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 I know this sounds stupid but recently my ex husband has been appearing in my dreams constantly. He is always slightly sinister and i wake up feeling really weird. I put the divorce behind me a long time ago, so I don't know why he keeps cropping up in my sub-conscious. Does this happen to anyone else? Does anyone know what it means?
AnonyMOUSE18 Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Hi Polly! This happens to me, too. My husband left August 5th. I have had no contact with him for 2 weeks now. Anyway, my ex appears in my dreams almost every night. They are various in tone. Sometimes he is apologizing over and over, sometimes he is telling me that he really does love me. Those are nice, but sad to wake up from. Then there are the dreams where he is walking away from me and won't listen to me, and sometimes where he is calling the OW or she is sometimes even IN the dream. (always in a much prettier form than she is in real life, which makes me laugh when I wake up.) It sounds like the collapse of my marriage happened more recently than yours did, however. I've been more able to contain these dreams by reading books just before falling asleep - books that I don't associate with the ex. It probably means that part of you is still processing the change. Do you have a counselor? Maybe he or she could help with this! Best of luck. =) Stay strong!! -Scraggle18
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