Blurple Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 I am trying to get back together with my ex gf. We are taking it slow and everything seems to be okay.. However times I get weak around her because I am taking things to seriously while she wants to wait things out with us before we decide to get back into a relationship. I also feel that my confidence level goes down when she maybe doesn't act as interested in me sometimes. However, I have always been a confident person and she knows that. I am definitively lacking in this situation. Does anyone have any tips for me as far as "Being" more confident around her?? What are somethings I should do or not do? what things should I say to her
Author Blurple Posted October 8, 2007 Author Posted October 8, 2007 Thank you.. that one is very good. Maybe not being clingy??? also does anyone have any things I can do while we are out?? just a thought
Nial Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 I am trying to get back together with my ex gf. We are taking it slow and everything seems to be okay.. However times I get weak around her because I am taking things to seriously while she wants to wait things out with us before we decide to get back into a relationship. I also feel that my confidence level goes down when she maybe doesn't act as interested in me sometimes. However, I have always been a confident person and she knows that. I am definitively lacking in this situation. Does anyone have any tips for me as far as "Being" more confident around her?? What are somethings I should do or not do? what things should I say to her Hi Blurple, Do you have a good social life? Maybe you could try to go out more, meet new people (women are better in this case). I'm not trying to tell you to forget about your ex, but it should help you to be more confident and strong in every social situation, including around your ex. I mean, when you "force" yourself to meet new people, you will rebuild this confidence at the same time. Try to put those old plans you had forgotten years ago to run (maybe gym, sports, music, etc), it will help you to feel happier, more confident and etc. Hope this help! PS.: I'm following your progress at "Second Chances", Good luck!
Author Blurple Posted October 9, 2007 Author Posted October 9, 2007 Yes I have a new job which is better and yes i am going out and meeting new people and you can check the second chances thread and see were i am at now apparently she is not wasting anymore time meeting new people either
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