So what action should I take?

[CJ77]

Ok ive written many times on my ex and i guess im at the point where im just like what the heck is going on...we split up four mnths ago...in a nutshell we broke up after i was getting fed up with him never having any time for me and then i heard how he went out with 2 girls and one other guy to see a movie when he hadnt seen me in almost 2 weeks...i was livid and for the first time in our 5 mnth relationship I exploded on him and the nxt day he came to me and said the best thing to do would be to break up but that he still liked me and hoped for a second chance sometime in the future. I was crushed and shocked bc he always acted very into me as I was into him, he told me he loved me and on some occassions when he thought i wanted to break up with him he would tell me that scared him and that he thought I was the best. So maybe he broke up with me to save his male pride bc he thought i would eventually do so? or maybe he was guilty? i asked him about a mnth ago, as he contacts me at least once a weeek, why it is he didnt want to be with me anymore, he said that it was bc there was too much stress and things didnt feel like they did when we first started dating

 

so since the breakup, he contacts me once a week, im told by coworkers that he stares at me and when i go to look hes looking the other way, lately when he sees me at work he puts on the hugest smile and says hi to me and almost looks excited to see me and makes little comments but if i try to make a conversation out of it he seems really nervous and uncomfortable and just keeps walking, hes always intune to what im saying or doing while we are at work, if i tell him that we are working on the same night he gets all excited, sometimes he does let me catch him looking at me and hell smile at me

 

but yet it cant be that he wants me back bc then he would be trying to get me back

 

and i guess im just so confused, like what is going on here? what should i do?

 

is this a guys way of just being friends with you, i mean i seem to think kinda not?

 

totally confused..pls help

[DH27]

I feel like there is still something there. If he wasn't interested in you at all, he wouldn't smile, I think he would try to avoid you. Sounds like he probably doesn't know either. As for what you should do? Sorry but I'm not sure. But I think there is a chance that a flame could be relit.

[CJ77]

yes it does certainly seem that way but you know i can still feel though that when we talk that he keeps a distance...like for instance today i was telling him about a issue at work with a coworker and i started to go off on a tangent and said sorry i know you dont care about this stuff but....

so he made a point in saying in his words "No i do care....because i dont like when its done to me either"....i dont know i kinda take that like he has to give me a reason why he cares...i dont know its so confusing...maybe he doesnt know what he wants.......