brokenheart2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 i have been married for about two years and its been hell eversince. when i first met my husband he was the the freatest person ever, then he made a complete 360 .........he now smokes marijuana more than ever...we argue everyday...he has been unemployed for a month and a half and all he does is dream about jobs that may come his way....when we fight the entire neighbourhood can hear us he calls me names and i do also back at him...and when i argument gets heated he jumps in the car car and leave me alone for hours....we just had an argument an hr ago.. and yes he's gone again.. where i don't noo... when i tell him he has problems he wants me to shut up... and if i don't he flips out , gets loud and run...i am tired of dealing with it.. then he comes back high and walks around like nothing happened
Ocean-Blue Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Have you guys tried counseling? Did something happen to make him do a complete turn around? I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going well right now. Sounds like he's going through a bit of a slump - I'm sure the weed doesn't help either. Do you think he'd be up to talking to a neutral party?
Missy27 Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Next time he jumps his azz into his car and drives off in a big paddy like a two year old ~ change your locks and dump all his sh~t into bin liners outside with a note on it telling him to "Go Make Like Helicopter" ~ ~ jeez lady ~ you dont need this crap in your life thats for sure ~ Why bother with this geezer when all he does is make you miserable ~ I'd have given him the order of the elbow a LONG time ago ~
lovelorcet Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Next time he jumps his azz into his car and drives off in a big paddy like a two year old ~ change your locks and dump all his sh~t into bin liners outside with a note on it telling him to "Go Make Like Helicopter" ~ ~ jeez lady ~ you dont need this crap in your life thats for sure ~ Why bother with this geezer when all he does is make you miserable ~ I'd have given him the order of the elbow a LONG time ago ~ It's a bit blunt but I think I will have to more or less agree the basic idea of this post. Tell him to get his act together or kick his a$$ to the curb... But if you say it you had better mean it.
Melovator Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 I've known quite a few pot-heads in my time... ahh uni share houses, such memories... But while its might be considered okay in some circles to do bongs for breakfast, those circles generally involve young single men... The thing is smoking pot is like smoking apathy... pretty much the only thing a pot-head, like any other addict, can get excited about is getting more pot. Well that and food, comfortable couches and box collection DVD's. Who would want that in a spouse? Especially when then haven't got any greenery and they turn into nasty bastards. If he can't acknowledge that he is an addict (and is he smoking way more now or is he just hiding it less??) then there's no point you hanging around. All its doing to you is making you get stressed and yell and shout and who really likes doing that? Let him smoke his brains out if he wants, you don't have to be there to watch him make a bum-dent in the couch.
Missy27 Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 To add to what Mel said ~ Most tokers dont have much of a libido ~ so ~ if it's not enough that he's a lazy, good for nout layabout who's idea of heaven is a never ending supply of Ben & Jerry's and the Starsky & Hutch box set ~ You dont get laid either ~ ????? ~~ that'd be enough for me honey ~ there aint no point in him at all if he's not gonna put out either ~~ !!
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