googlezap Posted October 7, 2007 Posted October 7, 2007 I was joking around with a girl and said that I might have to go out with her (totally jokingly). She replied, "Sorry, not just yet." Is it worth reading into? If so what did she mean?
popey Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 I don't think it means she's not into dating you. At least not necessarily. Sounds more to me like she wants you to step it up and try to impress her/ show you are worthy.
Timberlane Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Tell her if she's not just yet interested, then you are off to date ms. so and so. Haarrrumph!
Author googlezap Posted October 8, 2007 Author Posted October 8, 2007 Yeh I thought it was more along the lines of I need to step it up etc. If she wasn't interested in dating wouldn't she have just flat out said no instead of adding on the "not just yet"? The entire conversation was a joke, so I don't see her saying "yes" without her being willing to take it out on a limb and be serious about it.
Star Gazer Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 It doesn't sound like either of the poster's opinions above me. It sounds like she isn't ready to date...anyone. "Stepping it up" will only drive her away. Be patient. Be her friend while flirting with her, and ask her out again - for REAL - in a few weeks. If she blows you off then, you'll know it.
Timberlane Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Well, with so little information it's just all of us voting at this point.
Author googlezap Posted October 8, 2007 Author Posted October 8, 2007 Well it was on aim, so it was hard to get a good gauge (like tone of voice or anything). I was wondering about getting into this party, and she said that you would either have to be in the organization that was hosting it, or go out with one of the members. Since I wasn't about to join, I said " So what's my alternative, going out with you?" And then she replied "LOL sorry, not just now haha"
johan Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 If a girl said that to me, I'd never show interest in her again.
Author googlezap Posted October 8, 2007 Author Posted October 8, 2007 everybody seems to be taking her words at face value, but since we were joking, shouldn't it be taken more with a grain of salt?
Chesleyfan Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Considering the context, she probably meant that she wasn't going to go out with you just so you could get into a party... doesn't seem she meant anything serious by it. And it seems like you think it was more a joke than anything... so why are you worrying about it?
Timberlane Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Still, too little information. And we have the other factor of this member's only party. Did you just want in or really want to go out? Kind of complicates things, hmmmm? Try asking in another context for crying out loud.
monkey00 Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 Well, she could just be teasing you with 'not just yet' But anyway why should you do anything to impress her? If anything, she should be the one trying to get your validation/attention.
Krytie TV Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 I don't know how any of you can even guess at that question with as little info as we have. There are so many contextual details missing that we could not possibly answer that question.
Author googlezap Posted October 8, 2007 Author Posted October 8, 2007 I didn't actually want in to the party, and she knew. What else do you need to know?
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