lovely205 Posted October 7, 2007 Posted October 7, 2007 If I knew a guy is having and affair, should I tell his wife? I already talked to him on his action and he promised to change and break up with the girl. This is not his first affair. Before I confronted him, he has been seeing few other girls but breaks up for various reasons. Recently, his work requires him to transfer to other town and he just went there alone, leaving the wife and kids here. I found out that he has been seeing other girl behind his wife's back at the new town. I feel sorry for his wife. Should I at least alert her so that she will move in with him at the new town - at least he has less chances to cheat. I knew he is the type that like to flirt with girls and never give up seducing them. What kind of guy is this?
Trialbyfire Posted October 7, 2007 Posted October 7, 2007 What kind of guy is this? Not much of one... The wife does deserve to know but it's up to you, if you want to get involved with this.
gonecrazy07 Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 I would tell her! She will find out one way or another.
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Just curious, why did you post this again? Are you, or were you one of this guy's OW? You sound way too invested in this guy to just be a casual observer.
Havn_a_life Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 If you are only wanting to tell on him because of what LB asked above, then you're wrong to do it. Don't do it for that reason. If you are just an innocent observer, then I would tell her. No telling what kinds of STDs the guy could get from sleeping with so many women. His W doesn't deserve to catch anything.
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