candykisses Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 I gave the guy I like my number but the a couple of days after I gave it to him he had surgery. (timing not the best). Anyway, I started to wonder if I was wrong about the signals I was seeing from him. I decided that I wasn't going to worry about it and just be friendly and not change my behavior toward him at all. I noticed that over the days and weeks that followed that he would look over at me and he would smile and wave at me without me having to do it first, like I have in the past. One day I didn't see him passing by until he was a few feet past me, he turned around to look at me to see if I was looking at him and at that point he smiled and waved. So I was like cool at least he is interested in starting a friendship, so I sent him a piece of my cake that a co worker brought in on my birthday. I had already gone for the day so I didn't know if he got it. The next day, I called him over to ask if he got the cake or not and he told me he did. He then told me thank you and asked if it was my birthday and I told him it was and he said happy birthday. We were both smiling at each other a little while we were talking. A coworker of mine came in and he got quiet and we said bye. A little later he rode by and we smiled at each other and a couple of my co workers noticed this and made a comment. So now every morning he looks for me and waves and smiles. He is more comfortable with me now, so that is a good thing. Does it seem like he is interested in me or just being nice? Should I wait for him to ask me out or should I ask him? I don't want to move in too fast and scare him away. What do you guys think?
PrincessBOT Posted October 7, 2007 Posted October 7, 2007 Did he ever call, did you guys talk for hours and make a connection or did he never call? It is not clear if the guy took a strong interest then cooled off. Possibly either he is very shy or he is not interested in going beyond friendly co-worker. However, I think even the shyest guy will make a move by now if you show even an smidget of interest. Also, the work situation is very close, some people make it a rule not take an interest in co-workers especially ones that work in the same office. Course of action: see how he interacts with other co-workers. There is always the option of you making a follow-up move if you are really interested. You won't have to guess anymore after that.
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