too old for this Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 I am going to cut my ex off from my insurance. As domestic partners she was able to get my insurance for about $100 a month. She hasn't even paid me this month for her half and is now vacationing in Mexico. I've also been maintaing NC for over a month. I was planning on giving her a month or two notice before completely cutting her off. Should I email my decision, call or what? Thanks in advance '
Trialbyfire Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 Just email her with an effective date of cutoff. If she responds, don't respond to her or you will get entangled in one more ineffective conversation/argument. She's your ex. You owe her nothing. If she can afford to vacation in Mexico, she can afford her own insurance.
Author too old for this Posted October 6, 2007 Author Posted October 6, 2007 Thanks Trial...Great answer. You're right I don't owe her anything. I was going to say something to the affect but I knew it would just get me reinvolved in the drama. After 1 month of no contact I'm starting to see the light more and more
Trialbyfire Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 I wondered if you were an NC advocate. It does work well if you're motivated to move on. Don't let this little setback break your stride. Keep working on you and don't worry about her or what she thinks. She may try to appeal to your softer side with a sob story or get aggressive about cutting her off, so she can manipulate you into continuing the reduced insurance premiums. Don't respond or you'll get sucked back in and end up where you were a month ago. I suspect you don't want to be back there again.
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