SuperHands Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 Hi guys, I just like to say that finally i feel like i'm making progress. After all the advice i've read here it's really helped me to come to some decisions about how i'm going to progress forward in life. I've made some bold decisions and have stood by them, despite critisiscms from friends telling me 'you should do this' or 'that's not right doing that'. And now i feel like i'm in the drivers seat again and it feels good. I'm far from over my ex, and still get the odd yearning for her. It's natural. But when i look back to how I felt about it all a few weeks ago, I can see i've made progress. I've learnt to focus on a bright future. Even if there isn't anything paticularly nice to look forward to, i'll just imagine that there is and that's enough to get me in a good mood. I'm now a much more positive and happy person and enjoying life again as much as I can. So to everyone here who is going through the wars. Hang in there, take great advice from this place, remember YOU are in control of your life and that it is in YOUR power to bring yourself happiness. Good luck to you all and NEVER give up!
Bosiell Posted October 7, 2007 Posted October 7, 2007 Hey Super Really glad to see you making progress. I remember your early posts, and I was in a similar position pretty muich at the same time. I can only agree with all you have said mate. I to have made good progress since that time. Initially I didnt think it was possible, it has been the longest and hardest month of my life. But in some ways it has been an eye opener for me and how I feel about myself, will make be a better person for it for sure. Yes it is very important that you focus on the future, the past is the past and can only stay there. YOU are in control of your life and that it is in YOUR power to bring yourself happiness. Very true. I keep telling myself that.
Author SuperHands Posted October 8, 2007 Author Posted October 8, 2007 Glad to hear you are doing well too Bosiell. I'd have to say i'm now a happier person than I was, even when I was with her. This is good, because when i look back on the relationship I can see how wrong it was and also that I only went out with her, to be with someone. If she called up tomorrow and asked me back, i'd say no with very little hesitation. I'd see it as a backwards step. My only challenge now is to see if in time we can get back to being friends without any of the feelings coming back. I don't know if that is possible, but if not, then I'll just continue as I am now.
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