I just got kicked in the stomach tonight

[someone3434]

We dated for ten months. 6 months into it she says she needs space. We break up. 1 month later she comes back and says she can't see anything she wants to do in the future without me. She's figured out our first born name if its a girl..talks about moving in and getting married. 2 months later she says she isn't "sure she loves me the way she needs to". breaks things off with me. Says she wants to remain friends and just needs time. 4 weeks later i'm at a friends house who just moved in 3 blocks down from her. I stop by to say hi cause she's been busy at work. Truck in the driveway. Not one i recognize. No lights on in the house. I feel great.

[SuperHands]

Ouch! Yeah that's got to hurt. But now your mind has gone into overdrive asking a thousand questions into what does it mean? Is she seeing someone? Who is he?

 

However you should also bear in mind that it might not be your worse fears. It could be a relative, or friend. And if she is seeing someone else, then this can be a good thing for you. To finally give you the sign that she's not right for you and it's time to progress forward in your life.

 

It sounds to me like she's leaving you dangling on a hook, while she tries to figure things out. You have to decide whether you want to be left dangling or get yourself off that hook and move forward.

 

Good luck.

[bish]

We dated for ten months. 6 months into it she says she needs space. We break up. 1 month later she comes back and says she can't see anything she wants to do in the future without me. She's figured out our first born name if its a girl..talks about moving in and getting married. 2 months later she says she isn't "sure she loves me the way she needs to". breaks things off with me. Says she wants to remain friends and just needs time.

 

Time schmime and break schmake....ya...give her time....an eternity. Dump her and move on to someone worth 2 squirts of piss.