brknhrtdsoul Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 Hi. I just wanted to say that I am new and a complete wreck. Today was our last day as MM and MOW. It had to be done and I have asked for some time, he has asked for "friendship". I am a total mess. I just found this place, so I want to read a bit before I post... Thanks.
whichwayisup Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 It is better than it has ended, even if you don't believe that now. You both are married and committed to other people. To cheat, to betray and fool your spouses, and your family (if there are kids involved here) is just wrong. Maybe time apart will either make you both realize you're meant to be together, or you're both meant to focus and fix your marriages. Definately read up on threads here and in the infidelity and separation/divorce sections as well. Good luck and I hope that you heal yourself, realize that you're doing the right thing by ending the affair. I do have to say though, your exMM is fooling himself if he thinks you two can be just friends. All that will be is an emotional affair. Nope, you two need to go no contact and move on, don't look back.
kymberann Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 Just give your self lots of time to comfort and nurture yourself. It will all fall in to perspective for you one day. Best!
GreenEyedLady Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 Just take your time...Come here for support... ((HUGS))
lovernotafighter Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 time..that all you can do is wait it out, you'll feel better but this wound is just to fresh (((hugs)))
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