MissJ72 Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 If you read my "ended over something petty...but i shouldnt call right?" (the revised version)....I did not call him ...Found out maybe he was on the start of some sort of verbal abuse...I'll never know..but I'm just heartbroken becuase we dated for six months talked everyday ..and he doesnt even miss me? i dont get that? and the way it ended....silly.. The old me would have called and asked "Why arent you calling me what is wrong with you...you want to end it over this? but why ? he just evidently dont care...and never did..either way...He once told me silence was golden and that his exes used to call him wondering why he didnt call...that should have been a warning..to me anyway.. I just want some suggestions on getting through this...especially when he was such an ******* if you read it...but then he was nice too... I dont get it...Im still very upset..but now like i said im getting through it...any ideas this is a bad day.....and it's been two weeks since we talked and one month since he has seen me...Im really heartbroken..
lexi29 Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 I just wanted to offer my support, dont' have any advice really as I'm going thru pretty much the same thing right now. dated my bf for the last 3 years friends for about 5 years- he was the person I was closest to in life. He ended it with barely any warning. just threw me away like a piece of garbage. Like nothing ever mattered. So I know the pain you are going thru right now. All I can say is just remember its not YOUR fault. there is nothing you could have done to change his mind and there is nothing you did to push him away.
Author MissJ72 Posted October 5, 2007 Author Posted October 5, 2007 Thank you ....that helps a little...I appreciate you saying that! Anyone else would be greatly appreciated as well.
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