heartbroken_shak Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 hi guy's, i'm 22 and my ex is 21 we've been togeher for almost 5 years, but now al off a sudden she dont want to be with me any more, she say's she wants to be independent, she said she'll stay in contact with me but thats it, since we've been together she's never been out with any other guy, but recently about 1-2 weeks before we broke up she went to london with work while she was there she promised me she would call me and stay in contact but she did'nt. i'm the type that if she say's she'll call me and then if she dont it'l gett me realy pissed of, cuz we normay talk every night for a few hours. any ways wen she decided to answer i gave her alsorts of abuse like i think she's a slag and i realy said some bad stuff to her which i honestly did not mean. for that reason she dont want to be with me any more, it's been about a month since we've broken up and we stil call each other every day, it realy hurts me wen she talks about being with other people, she does not express her self at all about that she misses me or any thing lke that, but i feel so hurt and i've got to a point wer i realy want to stop loving her. the more i try to forgett her the more i'l call her and express all my feelings to her. i can go on for ages but i wont. PLEASE HELP ME GUYS I BEG U, IF U NEED ANY MORE INFO PLZ ASK. THANX GUY'S
whichwayisup Posted October 6, 2007 Posted October 6, 2007 You need to re-post your thread in either the general relationships section or the breaking up section. You'll get more answers there...This section is really for questions and comments about LS itself, not about your own life. But, since I am here, I will answer your post so you have a reply to your problem.. It sounds like she's ready to move on and see other people...You both are young and were together for a long time. I know it hurts, but when someone wants out of a relationship, and makes themselves unavailable to you (hense her not calling you when she said she would) you need to take that as a sign. Her actions and words are showing you that she isn't interested anymore. Sorry... Give her time, and space...In a month if she is still very distant from you, then you need to accept it's completely over and she isn't coming back. Try to keep busy and don't email or call her. Vent here instead or write her a letter but DO NOT SEND IT. Venting your thoughts in a letter to her without sending it IS very theraputic for the soul and it will help you get the closure you need from within yourself.
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