zelda579 Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 Hello I've posted here before and here I go again. OK so my ex dumped me over 5 months ago. About 4 months ago I told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore cause he hurt me ( no contact). Now when we got back to school he saw me and asked if we could continue as friends. So everytime we saw each other around campus we chatted a bit. Now, a month later he asked if it would be cool if he could talk to me on the phone again and I agreed thinking that maybe he wanted to start something up again. Well, he calls and first thing he asks is that if I'm ok with him calling me and don't feel akward. I said no and that I'm over it and he said, "Good, I'm glad." I probably shouldn't have said that but I don't want him to know that 5 months later I'm still down. Anyway, we continue talking and next thing he says is that now that we are talking on the phone we shouldn't talk so much because it will be weird. Uh... What the hell? He was the one asking me for permission to talk to me. Anyway, he is obviously over me but he's the one asking that where's my guy friend that he saw me talking to last time, what did I do with his pictures, etc. What is his problem? Please tell me your thoughts on this. Thanks!
finallyhappyme Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 Hello I've posted here before and here I go again. OK so my ex dumped me over 5 months ago. About 4 months ago I told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore cause he hurt me ( no contact). Now when we got back to school he saw me and asked if we could continue as friends. So everytime we saw each other around campus we chatted a bit. Now, a month later he asked if it would be cool if he could talk to me on the phone again and I agreed thinking that maybe he wanted to start something up again. Well, he calls and first thing he asks is that if I'm ok with him calling me and don't feel akward. I said no and that I'm over it and he said, "Good, I'm glad." I probably shouldn't have said that but I don't want him to know that 5 months later I'm still down. Anyway, we continue talking and next thing he says is that now that we are talking on the phone we shouldn't talk so much because it will be weird. Uh... What the hell? He was the one asking me for permission to talk to me. Anyway, he is obviously over me but he's the one asking that where's my guy friend that he saw me talking to last time, what did I do with his pictures, etc. What is his problem? Please tell me your thoughts on this. Thanks! I think he's messing with you and you shouldn't pick up anymore of his phones calls because he sounds confused and as if he cant make up his mind. And that will only lead YOU to more confusion and anxiety.
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