KenzieAbsolutely Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 You people are ****ing useless. not anymore than your thread is. you still haven't stated what it is that you're looking for here. maybe we can be of more "use" to you if you make it more obvious what you want. and, tbf--
Author unfreakinbelievable Posted October 5, 2007 Author Posted October 5, 2007 I ****ing want to know if this is ****ing normal. I know she wasn't the one for me but I've never met someone who was part of me the way she was. I feel like ****ing **** and can't stop thinking about her.
norajane Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 I ****ing want to know if this is ****ing normal. I know she wasn't the one for me but I've never met someone who was part of me the way she was. I feel like ****ing **** and can't stop thinking about her. Ohhhh, so that's your question! Yes, of course it's normal to feel that way. Any time you break up with someone when you still have feelings for them - especially strong feelings - you're going to feel like crap. Many people do end relationships because they know things just aren't going to work out for the best if they stay together despite what they do have going for them. And all those people feel like you're feeling now. Sometimes doing the right thing, the best thing, means doing the hard thing. Which is why a lot of people don't do the right thing and just end up screwing things up in a major way later. Give it time. Once you and she give your feelings some time to ebb, you may be able to re-establish a friendship. But you do have to give it a lot more time since your feelings are still pretty raw. You are certain that you can't love her the way she deserves?
Author unfreakinbelievable Posted October 5, 2007 Author Posted October 5, 2007 Ohhhh, so that's your question! Yes, of course it's normal to feel that way. Any time you break up with someone when you still have feelings for them - especially strong feelings - you're going to feel like crap. Many people do end relationships because they know things just aren't going to work out for the best if they stay together despite what they do have going for them. And all those people feel like you're feeling now. Sometimes doing the right thing, the best thing, means doing the hard thing. Which is why a lot of people don't do the right thing and just end up screwing things up in a major way later. Give it time. Once you and she give your feelings some time to ebb, you may be able to re-establish a friendship. But you do have to give it a lot more time since your feelings are still pretty raw. You are certain that you can't love her the way she deserves? Thank you. I wish I had another answer but I don't think I can love her as much as she loves me.
Trialbyfire Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 Make sure you're certain of this before you walk away from someone like this.
amythan Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 Not sure to understand your point. It seems you were in love with her but you are not anymore and she still has feelings for you. If this is the case move on and respect if she does not want to be in touch with you for a while. If you still have strong feelings for her .. then you would be a little bit retarded ..
Trialbyfire Posted October 5, 2007 Posted October 5, 2007 Methinks he's a bit of a commitment phobe who has met his match... He can continue to run away or he can look to himself and work on his issues.
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