Msblueyes Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 I don't know if he's leaving in the morning, before work or after work. I don't know whether to send him off with a good bye letter or just let it ride. If this "need for space" translates into I want to date and sleep with other women (because I can't keep my head from rotating a 360 when I'm with my girlfriend) then it is the best move. What happens from here? I'll be with the rest of you on...how long will it take for him to realize I was the one. He has not said he wants no contact, but if it's space he wants then why should we be in contact? He wanted to take the bedroom tv (yes, I have a living room one too) but, if I want to have my own little pity party (sooner or later this weekend), then why should I feel sorry for him and let him "borrow" it? He's getting over $1K tomorrow pay and says the most he can give me is $50....big whoop t do....but being that I'm up to my eyeballs in debt with him, I'll take it. Just paid rent which he obviously has no reason to reimburse his half ($400). After reading so many posts I am just overcome with disapointment in people's ability to be honest with their partners. I see a lot of women losing self esteem and actually afraid to question why their fiancees, partners, whatever, start not being intimate, staying in the den on the computer into the night, keeping the cell on silent (yes, I've been through all of that too)and WHY we can't understand that when that occurs, your lover has moved on????? So, I really am kind of between being excited not to have my bf around and then it will be lonely all by myself when at least he was there taking up space on the sofa (which I have not been on in 8 weeks). So I'm kind of weirded out by this...he, I'm sure, will be happy to watch ESPN in silence. Now I even wonder, if when he said he had to go out of town (on a Saturday) that he was even working. Who knows. I should stop caring because it really doesn't matter. I have to start finding what makes me happy. I think many of us forget how to make ourselves happy because we are so consumed with the other person. Time out! But I would appreciate some feedback on how to deal with tomorrow. My girlfriend says I should change the locks as well. An expense I don't have any cash for at the moment. help?
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