NocturnalRaids Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 This is a question more for women: what do think about when you remember past boyfriends. Is it the sex, or his charm, or how it ended? I wanted to know if my one and only from jr. high will ever think about me like I always do her. I can’t remember everything, it’s hard cause it just seeps away from me. I’m 18 yet it feels like ages. I don’t mean nothing to her, so I doubt she ever thinks about me. I think about her a little each day, or at least a few times a week. Plus after high school I moved 450 miles away, cause without her, (and not having had anyone else since) I had no reason to stay. I’m not convinced females think about it the same as males do. Any help is appreciated. P.S. - I have since moved back due to me being too poor. I still won’t see her, even though I think she lives in the town right next to mine (she moved out probably cause she is one academic year ahead of me).
Double D Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Im a male but think it is both a good question and a sad question you ask. I wonder how my ex thinks about me (broke up 11 months ago) we ended it ok but after the break up took its strain on us both and now we are on NC. I think about loads each day - some good thoughts some bad. I try and remember the relationship in a good light but it can be difficult, espacially thinking about how sad it is. On the other hand I would hope she remembers me in kind and the good times and memories but too be honest im not so sure. Plus would I really want to know. Guess what im saying is you take what you can from the relationship and remember how you want too. She has too handle it her own way and sad as it is we cant control or influence how she remembers us.
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