dantheram Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 This is the email my ex girlfriend sent me the other day, some of the things she says are taken to the extreme. I didnt call her 'mardy' and I always made time to do things with her. The truthful things relate to being comfortable and taking her granted, i did moan about somethings but we cant agree on everything can we! Dan First of all please don't think i'm ignoring you to be horrible, i'm doing this because the more we talk the harder things are. I do love you dan but not in the way i used to. I used to love you so much, i would have done anything for you. I don't know what happened when you were away that made me change my mind, i think it was the time on my own that made me realise that things aren't the same anymore. I know you weren't a monster but i did realise that you took me for granted alot, we never went anywhere or did anything together and you would moan and kick up a stink if i did want to do anything, i can't be doing with it being a constant argument if i ever want to do anything and you have to admit that's how it was even if i just wanted to go to asda, yet you went everywhere with *****. I don't want to start an argument with you but that is how i feel and when i tried to tell you this when we were together you didn't want to hear it. You say we could've talked about this but i tried so many times and after 5 years you get a bit tired of talking and never being heard or just being called mardy. When i think back to our relationship i just think we were comfortable and i don't want to be comfortable, we've been together since school and i think we want different things out of life, we have grown apart. I was saying i didn't deserve the presents because i hurt you by ending this and i never wanted to hurt you. I'm sorry things ended this way but i just want to leave this now if we keep in contact we will never move on and we need to. As much as i hate saying this please don't email me again and please don't respond to this email. I hope you are happy, i really do! ***** x She says the time apart made her realise but for most of the time she was saying how much she loved me and being normal. it was only the last two weeks of me being away that she acted strange. From this email i havn't got much chance of seeing her again have i? what are peoples opinions on this?
Diplok Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Her mind is made up dude. Don't contact her no matter what you do.
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