Should I be concerned?

[Misery]

There are a couple things my girl does that really aggravate me and annoy me. She is in college I am not, and when I am not around she says things that really get me upset.

 

She has been in school a month and has obviously made friends. The way she talks to this one friend when I'm not around worries me. Word travels fast in college so I heard what is being said by people I have made friends with.

 

When she is with him they talk about how sexy her body is, and what it would be like to hook up and have sex. How she has such a nice chest and butt. They talk about hooking up and that the only thing that is stopping it is me. They just talk so sexually around each other and it makes me feel uncomfortable knowing she says these things when I'm not around.

 

She has not acted on these feelings yet, so far only words. But he is always asking her to go out with her at nights and I'm afraid something will happen. Should I feel this way or should I not be worried unless she actually does does something? Any advice is appreciated.

 

Thanks

[Poboy]

yes, you need to be concerned if all this stuff is true and you believe it. ask her whats up with her and this guy and see what her response is. how genuine is your source of all this info you have of both of them.

[starlite]

If this is all true...leave her. This is crossing the line big time and is very inappropriate!

[Krytie TV]

People actually talk like that? I don't remeber ever mentioning even to a g/f that she had a "nice chest and butt" or "how great it would be to hook up for sex". It sounds rather middle schoolish. Exactly how trustworthy are these "friends" that you're making?

[Saxis]

Find out for sure this is really happening. If it is, drop the ho and move on with your life...

[Cobra_X30]

Maybe you should put all your cards on the table!

 

To keep her you may have to be willing to lose her. Are you willing to give her up?