coath Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 hi i am new to all this so please bare with me , first of all what a great site i have been reeding other posts for about a week now and its suprising how better you feel once you have read about other peoples problems!i am 24 and my girlfriend is 23 we have been together for 8 years and have a little girl of 5 years , about 2 weeks ago she told me the classic i love you but i am not in love with you , broke my heart my whole world is falling apart dont know what to do with myself had one week off work to sort my head out but i am very messed up right now she is still living in our house (rented) i have gone to live at my mums house , all the things this site recommends to do i these situations i have NOT done , begged man up etc . i wasnt expecting this to happen and i miss them both so much i try to see my little girl as much as possible but everytime i see her i feel so sorry for her to be part of a broken family ! the thing is we got on ok didnt fight i thought i we was doing alright but i cant help blame myself for this situation , there are no other people involved in this but she said she needs to find herself because she doesnt know who she is anymore ! i love the family life and dont want it to stop but i cant do anything about this because she has made her mind up and wants to end it ,she has already spoke to me about whos having what in the house , im not sure how im going to cope but at the minuate i am trying to keep strong for my little girl she loves me so much and everytime i she her she asks me when i am going to be back home and it breaks my heart ! im also thinking about the future when my ex gets together with someone else im not sure how i going to manage ! sorry about the spelling !any advice !
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