FreddieT Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Im 16 just joined sixth form, and i would just like some advice as im not particularly experienced or knowledgeable (im not interested if anyone has any pointless criticism or ageist comments). I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and everything has been all good except for around 3 weeks ago. It was the start of my new sixth form and she decided that it was best for her education if she went to college. We had such a good relationship up until then, id see her 3 or 4 times a week and they would always be enjoyable, it was like being in heaven. It has always been mainly for fun (escape from real life: that kind of thing) but after i got back from my holiday and started going to sixth form it has taken a turn for the worse. It has always been good as we could always see each other at school and after school too, as homework wasnt that bad and we werent particularily pressured. Since we went our seperate education ways we have been argueing alot, we try too see each other but she gets especially upset as (because the homework is such a heavy load im always pinned down with it and have other commitments too) that we dont see each other as often. I often get impatient now (which i never used to get) and find myself snapping at her making her quite upset sometimes , i love this girl to bits and dont want it to go down the drain and i know that she wants to be in the relationship. I know relationships shouldnt get serious this soon and that people are marrying later and later in their age each year, but i can honestly see myself being with someone like this girl in the future (it isnt realistic that we will marry i have accepted that). I have changed alot, maybe my feelings have aswel, but every time we come close to splitting i get terrified and emotional. I jsut want to know if it would be best to split up now or hold it up and see and try to make things get better?? Is all this pressure worth it at 16?? You must of known how it felt to be a teenager and feel pressured?? *i now realise this may have been posted in the wrong section of the forum... my bad :|*
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