FrozenDelight Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 He called after 31 days. He apologized. He said he'd been busy. That he was a flake. That he missed talking and laughing with me. He hoped we could go to lunch sometime. I said Sure, we'll have lunch. Sometime. Whatever. But I'm swamped right now. Gotta go. Take care. The whole 10-minute conversation was SWEET, people. And since I'll never call him again, nor answer his calls, I feel great. Not mad. Not sad. Just...done. Thought maybe you all would like to know that there's light at the end of the tunnel.
Bosiell Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Good for you Frozen I aint expecting any call from my ex tho, telling me she is missing me, NC or no NC. Being a wuss I am I would jump at the chance of lunch tho with her tho! Or just a no strings attached nite of passion
CaliGuy Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 NC works to help you move on. NC is never intended to "bring them back." It may happen by default but is not the primary intent.
Bosiell Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 NC works to help you move on. NC is never intended to "bring them back." It may happen by default but is not the primary intent. Yes of course Caliguy. I failed to mention that.
annabelle75 Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 NC works to help you move on. NC is never intended to "bring them back." It may happen by default but is not the primary intent. Very true. In my situation, I went on NC and really did move on with my life. I did not call my ex-bf after he made it very clear he didn't want to be with me anymore. I accepted what he said at face value and moved on. I'm still amazed that 5 months later he is now back in my life and doing everything he can to prove that he loves me. I really believed it was over and went into NC in order to help me get over him. Even if he hadn't come back to me going on NC was the best choice I ever made. It really is the only way to get over being hurt by some one you love.
Omma Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 what do you think, if he broke up, i went Nc for 2 weeks,he calls Monday says hes missed me, wants to meet for lunch, and i awnser, "im busy maybe some other day", than he says ok ill call you 2morrow. he doesnt call, nor does he call wednesday, and i just grab the phone and call him, and start crying and telling him his faults etc etc. I blew it right?, just beacuse of that ****in impulse that i just cant control.obviusly he got shocked, and couldnt understand how suddenley from being so distant i called and opened my heart.
CaliGuy Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 what do you think, if he broke up, i went Nc for 2 weeks,he calls Monday says hes missed me, wants to meet for lunch, and i awnser, "im busy maybe some other day", than he says ok ill call you 2morrow. he doesnt call, nor does he call wednesday, and i just grab the phone and call him, and start crying and telling him his faults etc etc. I blew it right?, just beacuse of that ****in impulse that i just cant control.obviusly he got shocked, and couldnt understand how suddenley from being so distant i called and opened my heart. Two words: Booty call. He just wanted to make sure you're still available should he need a late night friend...
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