googlezap Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I've known this girl for a few years and am kind of hung up on her. I'll "hang out" with her 2-3 times in a month, and she will seem very interested, lots of eye contact etc etc. Maybe it's because I don't make a move but after the 3rd time she'll start to seem less interested and start turning me down constantly, and this will go on for a few months. Eventually i'll get annoyed or just give up, and then if I wait long enough, or seem angry she will contact me and try to hang out again. What's going on?
bluepoppy Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Not sure 'gamed' is the right word. My guess is she's just not that into you in that way, but likes the attension. Once she realises that the amount of attension might be leading you on, she backs off, as she doesn't want to go any further. Sounds harsh, but that's what that looks like
Lucky555 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I have a guy friend that i am just friends with. I care about him i think he has a great personality but i am not interested in him what so ever. I know he likes me more than friends so i keep our conversations brief and non flirty. i will ask him how the girl hunting is. I don't ever want to date him but i care about him. If i liked him i would have taken his offer to hang out right away. I talk to him off and on but it doesn't matter i have my life he has his. Its simple im just not interested in a romantic way toward him. I think this is the case for you, i think she cares but doesnt want a romantic relationship.Try this stop talking to her and don't ask her to hang out start going out or being with another girl. if she asks you how your doing say your doing great and your getting to know someone and its all good. If she starts asking detailed questions about the person your seeing she might want to see how she measures up or is wondering what you see her. If she says that good and leaves it at that then it was just friends the entire time.
Author googlezap Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 Well she never asks me about other girls, and she doesn't try to introduce me to her friends (I almost wish she would). I have considered that she's just doing it for the attention though.
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