DateAnalyzer Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 She just met a guy 6 days ago and do you believe she asked me yesterday-"how long should I wait to have sex? It's questions like that, that screams desperation and I just can't see how any guy would ever take her seriously. She keeps saying-"I'm 27 and i would like to have kids, and be married" So she is just going to FORCE herself on some guy and be hurt all over again? Here is my prediction, she will not be talking to him before november, or before. i just know in 2 weeks she will be calling and saying she can't get in touch with him and he hasn;t call her.
shadowplay Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 She just met a guy 6 days ago and do you believe she asked me yesterday-"how long should I wait to have sex? It's questions like that, that screams desperation and I just can't see how any guy would ever take her seriously. She keeps saying-"I'm 27 and i would like to have kids, and be married" So she is just going to FORCE herself on some guy and be hurt all over again? Here is my prediction, she will not be talking to him before november, or before. i just know in 2 weeks she will be calling and saying she can't get in touch with him and he hasn;t call her. Does it make you feel better about yourself to constantly put your "friend' down?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 Have you tried dating her? she's not my type
reboot Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Have you tried dating her?omg, she might try to force herself on HIM then!
heidiQ Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 You know, a lot of girls think this way, and she is voicing her concerns to you because you are her 'friend' (though I doubt that the way you talk about her). Just because she shows her fears to you doesn't mean that she does to the guy she's dating. Maybe you should lighten up and try and be a good friend to her and listen to what she has to say, and give her sound advice on how to proceed in the relationship.
Lyssa Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 she's not my type I heard that a lot from you. I don't think 'your type' exist, DA.
Lyssa Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 omg, she might try to force herself on HIM then! Hmmm... I think that's unlikely to happen. I mean, seriously... come on. She's not his type (whatever his type is) and well, I'm scared to think how their children would end up.... seeing that Dad has issues with 'type of women'.
melodymatters Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Well DA, we haven't had much luck with you, but if you don't want to hear your friends complaints, why don't you send her to LS ?!? Maybe she'll be responsive to our suggestions !
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 I'm just tired of her being a loser and letting men use her like the hand wipes at the truck stop.
oppath Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I'm just tired of her being a loser and letting men use her like the hand wipes at the truck stop. they don't have handwipes at truck stops, but they do have them at Hooters!
Star Gazer Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 It's questions like that, that screams desperation and I just can't see how any guy would ever take her seriously. Your questions are no less ridiculous than hers are...
Timberlane Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I'm just tired of her being a loser and letting men use her like the hand wipes at the truck stop. She's cleaning dashboards of spilled Coke and tobacco juice?
Tony T Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 She just met a guy 6 days ago and do you believe she asked me yesterday-"how long should I wait to have sex? It's questions like that, that screams desperation and I just can't see how any guy would ever take her seriously. She keeps saying-"I'm 27 and i would like to have kids, and be married" So she is just going to FORCE herself on some guy and be hurt all over again? Here is my prediction, she will not be talking to him before november, or before. i just know in 2 weeks she will be calling and saying she can't get in touch with him and he hasn;t call her. Your post makes no sense. Asking how long she should wait to have sex has nothing at all to do with desperation. She is seeking advice and information. There is nothing in your post that indicates her behavior is that of forcing herself on some guy. However, there are MANY women that sleep with guys within hours of meeting them and I dare say only a microscopic number of them had to "force" the men into that situation. She is certainly not doing that by waiting. I do not understand your predication that she will not be talking to this guy before November??? If she calls you in two weeks saying she can't get in touch with him and he hasn't called her, she will be in no different situation that hundreds of thousands of other young ladies around the world who are having to deal with irrational, butthole guys. I apologize, I have obviously missed the whole point of your post and I sincerely apologize for that.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 Your post makes no sense. Asking how long she should wait to have sex has nothing at all to do with desperation. She is seeking advice and information. There is nothing in your post that indicates her behavior is that of forcing herself on some guy. However, there are MANY women that sleep with guys within hours of meeting them and I dare say only a microscopic number of them had to "force" the men into that situation. She is certainly not doing that by waiting. I do not understand your predication that she will not be talking to this guy before November??? If she calls you in two weeks saying she can't get in touch with him and he hasn't called her, she will be in no different situation that hundreds of thousands of other young ladies around the world who are having to deal with irrational, butthole guys. I apologize, I have obviously missed the whole point of your post and I sincerely apologize for that. So a woman wanting to have sex with a guy she just me 6 days ago is not DESPERATE?????????????????????????? Maybe I better fax my application to the nUt House then because I'm going crazy
popey Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Maybe she asks how long she should wait seeking your advice regarding how much time would make it more likely that taking a more intimate step will not be as risky to her end up getting hurt. Or maybe she's wondering if you (her friend) think that waiting wil better enable her to discern if the man is interested in her for something more then just sex. Or maybe she knows, as we all do, that there are alot of guys out there that will happily sleep with a woman as soon as she's willing, but if he deems it "too soon" than he will veiw her as non-girlfriend material just b/c of that. I too, do not see the desperation in her inquiry.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 4, 2007 Author Posted October 4, 2007 Maybe she asks how long she should wait seeking your advice regarding how much time would make it more likely that taking a more intimate step will not be as risky to her end up getting hurt. Or maybe she's wondering if you (her friend) think that waiting wil better enable her to discern if the man is interested in her for something more then just sex. Or maybe she knows, as we all do, that there are alot of guys out there that will happily sleep with a woman as soon as she's willing, but if he deems it "too soon" than he will veiw her as non-girlfriend material just b/c of that. I too, do not see the desperation in her inquiry. She is only asking because she has SLEPT with men on the first date numerous times in the past 7 months and ready to do it again but just can't help herself
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