i asked this girl out 1 year ago she said shes not ready should i ask again

[samueltrece]

i asked her out 1 year ago and i want to no if it would be creepy if i asked her out

[LucreziaBorgia]

How has it been between you for the past year? Has she been avoiding you, or sticking you in the 'friend zone'?

[samueltrece]

well she hasnt really had me in friend or avoid she doesnt like activley avoid me in the halls but she nvr says anything to me exceept when we r partners in something

[jerbear]

It doesn't seem you are in the friend zone or overly friendly; mainly aquaintances.

 

Doesn't hurt to ask again, shows some persistance. If she says no again, just don't let it happen a third time. Draw the line on #3.

[Citizen Erased]

To me it would come across as desperate. Like you have been pining for a year, waiting until it was long enough for you to ask again

 

I'm not saying that is what you have been doing, I rather doubt it, but this is how it could come across.

[samueltrece]

ok i have another question

this girl asked me out and i dont want to go out with her but how do i reject her nicely

[roxy_1980]

Well, the thing is many women say "it's not a good time" or "I'm not ready", but if the right man came along, it wouldn't matter if she was just dumped, cheated on or is unsure of her future...etc, the right guy is the right guy.

 

So really all those excuses are girl code for "No, I'm not interested." Sry.

[samueltrece]

ok thanks for the help on the first question all of you

[jerbear]

ok i have another question

this girl asked me out and i dont want to go out with her but how do i reject her nicely

 

Sounds like you are pinning for the original 1yr one and might miss out on this one.

 

I would suggest figuring out which one you "desire" and pursue it but don't reject one then fall back to another.

 

Instead of "nicely" just tell her you are not interested in a dating. Usually a good sign if the girl asks you out.

[samueltrece]

ok thank you