Newbie2Love Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 It is not uncommon to find yourself in a situation where you like a girl, as more than a friend, but they just like you as a friend, in some cases there is nothing you can do about this, however, if you can sow the seeds of erotic thought, without actually taking drastic or direct action, you may well find her becoming more attracted to you.The problem often lies in being nice, and not naughty, as many people are.. This will give an impression that you are a great friend, but not a great lover. So you really need to flirt more.Joke around, be more playful, spend more time looking into their eyes or glancing at them "cutely" or "suggestively". If she gets creeped out by it, make a joke of it, make sure your not coming across as a weirdo.Make physical contact 3 times every time you meet up with her (I read this in a flirting guide), each time you do, it should be about 2-3 seconds, somewhere like their hand, or shoulder, anywhere thats not too uncomfortable.Don't spend too much time around her, like, spend lots of time, and then none for a while, then more again, and flirt while you are there. While you are gone, she is given a chance to think about you, which hopefully she will.Take care of your appearance, make sure you shave regularly and don't smell.Do things for her, like help her out whenever you can, but spend more time with her when she is happy, than when she is sad, this helps her to associate happiness with you. If you are successful in her becoming your girlfriend, thats when it is most important that you support her when she needs it.Invite her to parties and request that she does the same.But yes, the most important thing in all of it, is to be flirtatious, and let things happen naturally.
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