nemo28 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Ok, to cut a long story short myself and my ex b/f of 5 years broke up last Christmas. We continued to hang out with each other for the next few months doing normal couple stuff but we were not officially an item. I thought it was just a matter of time until we got back together.. until bang... one day he wouldn't talk to me anymore.. that was 5 months ago. He just stopped for no reason and wouldn't take my calls. He moved with me from another country and we lived happily together for 5 years, I set him up with a good job in a family business where he still works.. thats the problem, I still have to deal with seeing him almost every day but he ignores me.. I know he is seeing someone else now, and have not tried to contact him since I've known. Thing is, I can't get over it because I don't know why he just suddenly stopped talking to me.. I need to know what I have done. It eats away at me every day and night and I even think about it in my dreams.. I still love this guy and it hurts so much to know that he hates me so much. I need to get some closure before I move on. Any suggestions? I've tried writing him letter but he didn't reply.
birdie Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I'm sure he doesn't hate you. I don't know why you broke up so I don't know how much you hurt each other but it sounds to me that he just wants to move on with his life and he can't do that by staying friends with you. He is seeing somebody else, he doesn't want to lead you on and that's why he stopped talking to you. I know that's hard but it is actually a good thing long term. Unfortunately the only advice I can give you is to take a leaf out of his book, try to stop thinking about him and start moving on.
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