matwithonet Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 My ex will not stop calling me. She is the one that broke up with me for another guy. Now let me say, I just had surgery, but I decided through this experience, that I will no longer do things that I will regret. Answering when she calls would be a regret I think because then I would go back to feeling bad. It's almost been 5 months. She keeps sending me emails saying she still cares and loves me and such. I also know that her new bf does not know that she keeps calling and such. I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I should answer or just keep with the no contact. She also won't stop asking my friends about me either. Also one more thing, our 6 year anniversary would be coming up on October 12th. Should I call her that day or pick up if she calls? I don't know what to do.
Aintayankee Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 She must be a different girl than in the other thread right? In that case, I think you should call her back or email. I dunno how much, but so it seems that she NEEDS you or something. She definitely has something motivating to talk to you. BUT, if you will start feeling bad or hurt, then it is fair to not respond really. Maybe a little contact. But nothing heavy. Or you could tell her since your serious surgery, you don't wanna be hurt by her, since you almost maybe could have died, the last thing you need is a shredded heart. You might also ask her where she was when you were kinda maybe dying stuff. Why is she only now wanting to know how you are, yet before she wasn't (if that was the case). Tough call.
Author matwithonet Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 Yeah this is a different girl. This is the girl the destroyed my heart and the other girl, is the one that has picked up the pieces.
NocturnalRaids Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Thats good. I understand why you are confused, just random out of the blue kinda thing.
Travis L Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Yeah this is a different girl. This is the girl the destroyed my heart and the other girl, is the one that has picked up the pieces. Whatever happened to the girl that picked up the pieces? Your last post on it said you were going to spill your heart that night....and then you stopped posting...?
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