shadowplay Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Ok, I know I promised myself I wouldn't start any more threads for awhile, but this question has been really bugging me. Up until recently I was concerned that my new bf was a bit lukewarm toward me (we've been together three months). But suddenly, in the past two weeks or so, his demeanor has completely changed and I can't figure out what's going on. Where he was guarded in his emotions before, he's suddenly very affectionate and tender. I've never seen him this vulnerable and open before. I just don't know what to attribute the shift in his behavior to, and I'm a bit scared it won't last. Is it something I've done or is this just the natural progression of a relationship? Has anyone else been in a similar situation?
spookie Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 A lot of factors - stress, exercise, diet - can affect the subtleties of people's actions. It's great that he's being more affectionate and loving, but you gotta stop analyzing all his moves. I'm guilty of this too, but the only way to really be happy in a relationship is if you are really happy despite how tightly (or not) your partner hugged you on a given day. Take it easy, let things flow, let him be as he is. Don't try to read into his actions, unless he's behaving in such a way that's unacceptable (cheating, lying, abusing, ignoring, extreme levels of rudeness, etc)
Krytie TV Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Not sure. Why not overanalyze it for the next week until you find a way to have it make sense to you?
Author shadowplay Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 Not sure. Why not overanalyze it for the next week until you find a way to have it make sense to you? ok, whatever...
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