lilnewyork33 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I could read other people's stories, and grab advice from there. But I need my own advice for this situation, because well, no two situations are alike. my boyfriend and I broke up in April, after having a rocky ending. He moved back home from college, and I think that took a really big toll on us. I never felt this way about a person before in my life. And us breaking up was the hardest thing for me. I quickly started dating another guy right after him, and it was a big mistake. in May the new guy and I just decided things were not working out, and by this time, my ex-boyfriend and I weren't talking. One random day in June, him and I met up, and we hooked up. He called me that night and told me he couldn't stop thinking about me and wanted to see me that week. I'm like "yes! I'm getting him back!" Well, he never called to meet up that week, and I never called him, I just let it be. During the course of the summer, I dated other guys, but it just wasn't hitting it for me. And every so often my ex would call me, to see how I was doing and what's going on in my life. I thought I was over him but it just never happened. Some days were worse then others. But he just kept calling and calling, and when I wouldn't pick up, he would call 3 or 4 times. I haven't seen him since June. Finally in August, I wrote him this beautiful letter, pouring out my heart to him and telling him how I never meant to hurt him and how it would never happen again, and when I read it to him he was silent. We decided to go out on a date, but that never happened. I finally gave up. Our last phone conversation ended by me telling him that he wasn't the person I fell in love with. I stopped answering his phone calls, IM's, text messages, and thought it would help me. Well, a couple of days ago, I got a phone call from him and I decided to answer, thinking I was a strong girl. He tells me that he misses me. He misses kissing me, making love to me, holding me in his arms, all the aspects a girlfriend comes with and that he is coming back to his senses and he is turning into the boy I fell in love with, and he goes "i want to go on that date" and I just kept saying "is this really what you want?" and he said "I wouldn't be asking, if this isn't what I wanted." We have something tentatively set for Saturday. He told me he is scared that he may not feel this way one day, because there are days where he does want to date me and there are days when he doesn't. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm breaking down. He has been on a couple of dates as well but he tells me that it just isn't clicking for him as well. Please help me.
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