frd150 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Ok so I have not posted on my ex lately. I had decided a while ago to move on and let whatever happen happen. Basically focusing on me and giving her the freedom to do whatever and with whomever. I dont know what it is but she still calls and its more frequent. I actually met up with her today (ok, bad move i know) and she was wearing the ring I gave her again. She has not done that since the break up which was a long a** time ago. Im not trying to make anything of this nor am I getting my hopes up. So my question is this... Does anyone have any "when they want to find you again stories that are legit". No the want to borrow money or they just missed the sex stories but real ones. You hear the sayings related to this all the time "If you love someone set them free" and so on. I just want to know if it actually happens.
BklynGuy Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I've had several ex's contact me again years later. Some to be friends with benefits, some to attempt to get back together. I dont know about you, but for me the old issues are still under the surface & one usually holds onto those more than the other. I'll say it's best to leave them alone, but I know this is much easier said than done.
Trialbyfire Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Most of my exes have contacted me over the years and some of them have stayed in touch. My ex-H and I are also in touch. It's clearly understood that there's no second chance.
Poboy Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 my ex is still in touch with me through emails , phone calls. i am only there for her sake cause she doesnt have a lot of friends and she confides in me and can ask my opinion about things but i know for sure she is intrested in getting back but i have told her that will never be the case. if she is eager to find out about your love life , dating scene often ... she might be interested in getting back with you.
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