BklynGuy Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Met a friend and we got close over time. We both lived in the same area...and we're both depressed. We shared our problems and issues. Used to hang out, go to movies, drink, party etc. The problem is he had a lot of problems with the ladies, getting with them. I was mainly depressed at the time over a past relationship and weight issues. I went back to school, and noticed a small change in his behavior. He also made several insultive comments here & there, as if there may be something more under the surface. I just figured it was his personality & shrugged it off. He told his friend I liked her, which was a total lie to get me closer to him. He tried to get with her but she wasn't taking. Another girl he tried to get with chose me. Other girls he was attracted to liked me, not him. One girl he'd tried very hard to get with chose me, not him. I'm in school & hitting the gym hard at this point. He just EXPLODED in anger towards me this day. For hours on end he was riding me acting like he wanted to fight. He told me he couldn't stand me & just kept hurling the insults at me. I used to sleep in this guys house. I said to myself hell no, I can't come near you again. There were several other little indicators that he wasn't of the best personality, but I never saw this coming. Most of the time he seemed OK though. Think dropping him was the best? That kind of jealousy over a woman is crazy.
Timberlane Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 What a low self esteem psycho. A dude is doing this to another dude? Weird-o-rama. Kick his ass to the curb for sure. Good on you for hitting the gym and getting with the ladies. Ladies love guys that don't have azzole friends.
Author BklynGuy Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 He had a lot of problems getting with the ladies, and some friends he knew much longer than me didn't hang with him as closely as I did. They just seemed to use him for their own purposes, but I dont know if he was a bad person deep down.
Timberlane Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 The main thing was that he was insulting and disrespectful for no reason to you. I had a work friend that was like that to me in the car once. He never had a second chance to act like that around me. I dropped him like a hot potato. I treat all of my friends well, respect them, and don't give them unnecessary grief. Seems to work. And I never give them crap for having successes. Sheesh.
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