marty Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 I'm beginning to feel alive again, and hopefully soon when i'm ready, jump into the dating pool. Thing is, I have NO CLUE when it comes to seeing the difference between a girl who's interested ,,, and a girl who's just being polite. I can talk to girls ok, and enjoy a good conversation, but i have no idea about 'reading the signs'. I've had 4 relationships, only one of which i had to ask out (my first love at 15). I'm now 35 , single,, and have to try and get myself out there, and meet people. Any tips guys and girls.:o:o How can you tell the difference???
Lucky555 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 if she looks at you right in the eyes and smiles. gently touches you when your talking to her. Note the body language, her body will be towards you. She blushes or acts shy She will flirt with you is open and hints that you two should hang out or do something together If a guys is just talking to me that i know and i am just friends with my body wont be directed towards his i will make eye contact but not be totally focused on him. I have noticed this and i think it could be helpful in this instance. She will try to get closer to you, her voice will be softer.
Timberlane Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Right on, Lucky. Those are all of the wonderful things I pick up on, especially the acting shy part and intent listening to conversations. Women who are interested in you will slow down how they speak to you and even talk in a lower voice, which sort of makes you need to stand closer. Oh, the long eye contact! Soooooo nice.
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