eatmydust87 Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Well, its been a month and a half since we spoke to each other at all. Not a single word has been said from either side. I have not heard about her at all, except when coworkers of mine who are more friends of mine than they were of her before she left, they told me she came into town this past weekend. I did not get a call or anything, which actually sort of makes me mad. I wasnt worth even a hi or something. But what really drives me ****ing crazy, is the fact that she gave me her new address in her new city, for what? Does she expect me to just call her up when im in town to see her, when she doesnt call or want to see me when she comes here? I dont understand why this girl did half the **** she did after I had asked for her back. When I was in the power position of the break up, all she did was want to talk to me, and tell me she loves me etc, she never asked for me back but kept saying htose things. When i asked for her back, everything changed and now she just doesnt give a ****, even moreso, its like she pretended to give a **** for a month, then the last time we spoke, she said that we didnt have anything in common to be friends (i said I wanted to be her friend to gain her trust back so she coudl trust me again), and that she might call me in a few weeks when she gets settled in her new place. Well I guess she forgot about me when she settled in. The only reason why this is really coming up, is because I know breaking NC is stupid but I am getting that pathetic urge to contact her somehow. Mainly because she came here this weekend and I felt insulted that she went to our old place of work and said hi to nobody's but I dont even get a hello or a call? Also, I am going to her new city this weekend on a roadtrip, I was going to call her up just to see how she was doing and see if she wanted to get together for food or something, but is it even worth it now if she doesnt want to speak to me? And on that note right there, I guess this question is for the ladies... Lets say a guy broke up with you and then realized he ****ed up and wanted you back. You tell him "in time my heart will be open to you" but he tries and tries for a month or so and says he knows its not going to be soon or easy but he is willing to wait and become your friend in hopes of gaining trust first and then pursuing the relationship. If he joined a social fraternity at his college, would that give you a sign that he is trying to move on or something? I guess even after almost 1.5 months of not speaking at all, I still miss her and think about her. I guess im just wondering if she ever feels the same? I doubt she would call, she takes too much pride in being independent, thats why I know by doing NC, its almost guaranteeing never having a chance. But not doing NC, will just lead this girl to **** with me some more. I usually delete my ex-gf's from my life, I am incapable of being friends with them, it never has worked, I do not even speak to my first love which was 6 years ago. She is the only one who has stayed sort of in my life since we broke up, mainly because I havent let go in hopes of a second chance. I feel like I should delete her off of both of them if I am going to heal and get over this because then even if I had the urge to look at her profile I couldn't. I dont look at her profile ever really, but that damn mini-feed on facebook blatantly shoves all the new stuff in your face and I am forced to see all her new updates. So yea, I guess my questions are... Should I call her when I go to her new city this weekend? Would joining a social fraternity at college, give a girl the impression you are moving on (asking this because pretty much the day after we last spoke I went on campus and joined one)? Why would she give me her new mailing address after we had already broken up? do you LS'ers think its ****ed up if you delete everything about your ex including them, from your myspace/facebook and how do they see those actions?
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