lovesparis Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 not that this is at all applicable to me, but i was thinking of it last night. if you moved away, and on a return visit home, met up with someone you really clicked with, perhaps someone you already knew or had some history with, would you a) leave and go back with no 2nd thoughts b) try to start an LDR c) consider moving back permanantly (in the future) d) hope that he would move where you are (in the future)? if you were to try and start an LDR, but were unwilling to ever consider moving back, would you make that clear from the beginning? would that nullify you desire to try and have a R with this person? would it be wrong to consider moving back to an area you hated for someone? at what point is "going the distance" (har har) not worth it? **please consider this scenerio as in a "perfect world" where all other considerations would just be worked out. ie: you would have a job if you moved, you have the finances to move or carry our an LDR, etc etc
Zona76 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 hmmm okay let me ask you this... If you didn't know the term LDR would would you do? Think back to before computers. You'd stay in touch. You'd share phone numbers and address's and try and keep the friendship alive. Mayhap you have a future and it's too soon to tell. But letting your friend know you would like to remain in contact and "this" certainly had meaning for you, is certainly understandable. Today we exchange emails. (I hate to write a letter) Emails are easier and no stamp is involved.
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