Someone else asked me on a date, should I?

[Scorpio13c]

Well a coffee date anyway, but it took me by surprise!

I mean, it's only been just over 2 months since my 4.5 yr. ltr break up & i never expected this.

She's from a online relationship site, that quite frankly i was about to abandon. I was using it to really help me feel better, just chatting with other people, but decided to discard it, then I get someone asking me to meet..

Should i?? Would you?

I don't want to hurt anyone, nor do i want to get hurt.

Your thoughts would be helpful.

Thank you

 

Scorp

[oppath]

It doesn't sound like you are ready for a relationship, but I'd go. Just don't allow things to become sexual or see her regularly without telling her "I'm recently out of a long term relationship" so she can make her own informed decisions. You don't have to tell her this information right away. You might not even hit it off.

[Scorpio13c]

It doesn't sound like you are ready for a relationship, but I'd go. Just don't allow things to become sexual or see her regularly without telling her "I'm recently out of a long term relationship" so she can make her own informed decisions. You don't have to tell her this information right away. You might not even hit it off.

 

Thank you Oppath,

Those are the same thoughts I've had.

As you too might imagine, i'm also looking at varible scenerios, as to the outcome of the date though..

 

Scorp