CuriousClaire Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 im pretty new to the whole dating scene as I just recently got out of a relationship so this may not be obvious to me... ok, so i was walking down the street, made eye contact and smiled at a cute guy and kept on going. He stopped me, we talked for a bit, and exchanged numbers. Feeling spontaneous, I invited him to hang out w/me later at the bar in his neighborhood. My co-wrkers were having a party there. He texted me a couple of hrs later and we agreed on meeting up. He shows up alone and tells me he's headed to another bar later on so i figure ok..ill probably just have a couple of drinks w/him, get to know him and he'll be on his way. At the end of the hour he asked if he can "steal me" away. I couldn't leave my friend and more importantly, he didn't specify what the hell he meant by that. To go w/him to his friend's bar?? Or a booty call? I definitely wasn't getting any "booty call" vibes from him at the bar. We were just talking..hardly any flirting. He seemed uncomfortable and stiff or something, different from the first encounter. Then again the guy didn't seem to like the place. He's a model and didn't seem to like the crowd too much. He didn't even want me to introduce him to my co-wrkers, but he kept asking if it was rude and ok...anyway, i said I couldn't go w/him cause i didn't want to ditch the friend i came with and he got pissy. I offered to meet up w/him on sunday instead and he made a face...at that point i said sorry and he went on his way. Ok....now i'm wondering WTF happpened???? was he looking to get some??? did i offend him. Should i even bother contacting him again. I hate to add this but he is really cute and I love that we met so randomly...but what seems flirty and light to one can be cheap and booty call-ish to another. insights plsssssssssss
spookie Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 I don't know if he was trying for a booty call but from what you wrote he sounds like a rude arrogant *********. Definitely don't call him. You've already offered an alternative and he made a face at it. If he wants to hang out with you, I think he needs to initiate AND apologize for his behavior.
mpower95 Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Give him one more chance and see how the second date pans out. He could have been nervous with the first meeting. Now if he still acts the same way the second time around, then I say forget about him.
kymberann Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Not sure if he was interested in a FWB or one nighter. But if he acted like that I would be concerned he would do that even if it were looking like a long term R. Be cautious, there are other cutuer guys out there!
Author CuriousClaire Posted October 2, 2007 Author Posted October 2, 2007 hmm..he hasn't called me yet. so i guess i should call him if i'm going to see him a second time. I dunno...i can't help it. He's too cute lol...and i guess I can always meet up him w/no expectations. I'm just trying to learn more about the guy..that's if the whole date/meet up thing pans out. If it does i'll definitely be cautious
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