my_chance Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 I am 19, she is 17. We were 'talking' and started a relationship around the middle of august. She was really interested in me, calling me all the time, and texting me all day. I really started to like her. Oh- we work together also. About two weeks ago, I left town for the weekend. Before I left I kissed her goodbye and told her to call me while I was away. She was like, well, you can call me too. Then she told me later to call her in about an hour. I said ok, and we left. I called her an hour later, but... she didn't answer. I figured she would call back. I left, came back 4 days later and things... just weren't the same. She never called back either. When I saw her I was sorta wondering what was up, I mean, she talked to me ALL the time. She said, whats wrong, and I told her nothing. Later after work we were walking in the parking lot talking a little bit, and when we got to our cars we just stopped and looked at each other. We would normally hug and kiss each other good night... but... I don't know what happened. I decided to break the silence and asked if everything was ok, because we were both acting... weird. She said she was busy and that I should have called her, and I told her I did. She checked her phone but she missed my call. Ok, thats cool. Next she tells me she doesn't know where we stand because we haven't spoken in a few days. She says she will call me the next day and we will talk about us at 9 pm. She didn't call so about an hour later I called and left her a voice mail, and she texted me back later with an apology and a valid excuse. Next we work together but things were a little different, not the same, not sure why. I told her I wanted to speak to her and she said, ok, I'll call you tomorrow, but I had to work, so she told me to call her when I went on break. I did, and she didn't answer, so I texted her. She came by where I work and told me her grandmother was in the hospital and thats why she didn't answer. I said oh ok, but you could have just answered and said that. Then she got mad and said well, if I dont answer you should assume I am busy. I called her the next night and she didn't answer but texted me back and apoligized and gave a valid excuse. The next day I called her and texted her later but this time no responses, so I left her alone. The next time I saw her I spoke to her in person a few days later. I asked her what was wrong because she seemed really mad at me, and she told me nothing was wrong, and that she has just been busy. She said some of her friends had been worried about her too, because she hasn't been answering the phone. She said I did nothing wrong and that everything was ok. I worked with her a few days later and she wasn't the same. She was mad at me over everything I did... even stuff that didn't matter. She barely looked at me, barley touched me... etc... the exact opposite of before. I spoke to her after work and wanted to know why she seemed so mad. We spoke for a while. I told her that I really missed her and wanted to continue our relationship. Eventually she said she doesn't feel the same anymore and that she didn't know what she wanted. She said she doesn't have time for a boyfriend right now and that we would try again soon. She looked really sad. She didn't know what happened and... yeah, I don't either. Anyway, I worked with her a few days later and she won't look at me, and barely speaks to me. I did the same. On occassion, I saw her looking at me, but I felt terrible... I realize I called her too much, but about 2 weeks ago she was complaining because I didn't call her enough. The only reason I called her was to try and save the relationship, and she even asked me to call her once. You see- she is really open and usually tells people when she is mad, or when they upset her or something. It's not like her to just... not answer calls and never speak to someone... she would chew them out before that. So, what happened? I am so confused, and she seems so mad, and upset. IDK. I need to get over her, but I really wish we could fix our problems and be together again.
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