steph11 Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 My boyfriend and I broke up again, and AGAIN he goes running back to his ex girlfriend! Some of you may remember our issue, (look under steph10 in this forum, I had to resubscribe, sorry) Please read that, it is not long. Any how, I found out that he called her last week. Just to say hi. Then SHE called him at work and he texed her back right away and I quote "Hey, whats up? I am working right now so I cant talk. I will definitley call you when I get done" and that bastard got off work at 3;30 and called her by 3:35!!!!! I guess they are going out tonight. JUST as friends he said. I am so freaken mad. Why does he ALWAYS run to her? She would not give him the time of day as long as he was with me. Now? I don't know what to think. She is not the type who would have trouble getting dates, she is BEAUTIFUL, and that makes me nuts. All of his friends think she is so cute, so nice, so sweet, YUCK they make me want to puke. One nite we were all having a few beers and her name came up, I called her a slut and he got furious with me, he said she is NOT a slut, not even close. He defended her like she was some great prize. She has been a thorn in my side for a long time. Just the thought of him with her pisses me off. I cant stand her. What is it about her that he keeps going BACK to her? He swears he never cheated on me with her, and get this, cuz SHE wouldnt hang with him as long as he had a GF!!! What is it with these two? They cant keep there eyes off each other, he was dating me, and I guess she has dated a few guys also, BUT she never lets anyone get to close to her, if they do, she cuts them loose. But my guy? There is just something about him and her, I don't know what it is. We were at the gas station about a month ago, and she was there. You could cut the tension between them with a knife it was so obvious. They didnt say one word to each other, they looked at each other, she looked away, he kept staring, she would glance at him, but I tell ya, you could FEEL this tension. Are they in love or what?
Author steph11 Posted October 1, 2007 Author Posted October 1, 2007 I can tell he has feelings for her, but could it just be as friends? but her I cant read to well. I have only seen her a few times. How can I tell by her body language if she is into him?
Mz. Pixie Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 He does it because you let him and then get back together with him.
Author steph11 Posted October 1, 2007 Author Posted October 1, 2007 What am I to do? It seems that if he thinks he has a shot at her again, he just dumps me and runs to her!! He is perfect. He is handsome, hardworking, fun to hang with. I love him. The worst part is, I think she wants him back now. I guess I knew all along that SHE would destroy us eventually. She has destroyed every relationship he has had since her, he always goes back to HER! His other girlfriends warned me about her, that if he just disappears for a long time, that she ( I will call her anna for discussion) that anna is in the picture somehow. She has always been in the background, as long as we have dated, they said the same thing, if she is around, you will not exist. They ALL said that he has never gotten over her, that he still loves her and that she still loves him, even if she brokeup with him. I hate that. I dont think he Loves her at all, if he did, why did he come back to me?
reboot Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 That hardly sounds like the definition of "perfect" to me. "He is handsome (and knows it), hardworking (at chasing other women), fun to hang with (when he can be bothered to be around)." Perfection indeed.
mpower95 Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 I think you're in denial of what is right in front of you. If your bf was truly over his ex, then he would cut her off completely. Although you may think otherwise, this is definitely not a healthy relationship for you. Oh and why does he come back to you? Well because you let him get away with what he's doing. You may call her a bitch and a slut in front of his face, but those are just words to him. Give him an ultimatum or better yet, go hang out with a good looking guy friend and see how he feels. I guarantee he gets real jealous. Think of it this way. If he considered you to be of high value in his life, he would not be doing anything to risk losing you. To do something so blatant and disrespectful in front of you, shows just how much respect he has for you. Don't be anyones fool.
kymberann Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 What do you care if you two are no longer a couple? Let them have each other. See what happends when they break up and he goes running back to you! Get yourself OUTTA the drama!
underpants Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 The only way to win this (stupid) game is to resolve yourself to NOT play. You two broke up. Stick to it. Let him fully understand the consequences of his choices. Don't let yourself be his doormat to come to when ex gets bored with him again. This sounds like the pattern they have. You were even warned. Sounds like a load of unneccessary drama and silly game playing. Don't get caught up in it. Just let him go. One or two less things to worry about.
KingJones Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Baby I'm sorry to inform you she's given him the best he's ever had. Point blank he's loves her sex. The best thing for you to do is walk away for good. Here is a question for you if you had a daughter in your situation what would you tell her?
Author steph11 Posted October 2, 2007 Author Posted October 2, 2007 Well I ran into her best friend last nite, we got drunk and boy did she fill me in!!! He has NOT stopped calling her - ever, SHE is the one that did not want a steady boyfriend, she needed to keep focused on school, SHE has ALWAYS loved him, she knew they were to young and has always believed that if they were meant to be it would still be there when SHE was ready to get involved. They BOTH have never gotten over each other, she would date, but if and when the guys(s) started getting all posesive and ****, she would dump them. OR A would make presence known and the guy would back off. They always have kept in touch, ALWAYS. On her birthday in August, he sent her a dozen yellow roses and BOUGHT HER ****ING TIRES FOR HER CAR!!!! He also took a few days off this past summer and helped her dad put a new roof on their cabin, put in new windows etc. He spent 3 days with her DAD! at HER cabin! She babysits for his mom and dad. (A had a little bro about 6 - he was an oops baby) sometimes. SHE was at his grandmas funeral last spring, she rode with HIM. He told me it was just family attending. She was at his house for a while on Easter Sunday. The blue sweatshirt he wears alot was from her, when he got a bunch of new cds, they were a gift from her, his Carhart jacket and pants? From her! They have always kept in touch, he is ALWAYS there for her and vice versa. She would not hang around cuz of me. She didnt want to cause problems for me, what a bitch. She knew all along that the minute she wnated hiim back, he was a phone call away. I guess they have been talking ALOT more lately and have spent alot of time together. He is in the process of buying 80 acres of land from his father. He never told me that. I guess she was there when they walked the land and helped mark the trees that are coming down!! Its like he is doing this for her!! Well, he is. Everything he has done has been for her, Its like I was just something to do while she grew up. What a prick. and the thing is? He told her just last week that he has always loved her and always will.
serial muse Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Well I ran into her best friend last nite, we got drunk and boy did she fill me in!!! He has NOT stopped calling her - ever, SHE is the one that did not want a steady boyfriend, she needed to keep focused on school, SHE has ALWAYS loved him, she knew they were to young and has always believed that if they were meant to be it would still be there when SHE was ready to get involved. They BOTH have never gotten over each other, she would date, but if and when the guys(s) started getting all posesive and ****, she would dump them. OR A would make presence known and the guy would back off. They always have kept in touch, ALWAYS. On her birthday in August, he sent her a dozen yellow roses and BOUGHT HER ****ING TIRES FOR HER CAR!!!! He also took a few days off this past summer and helped her dad put a new roof on their cabin, put in new windows etc. He spent 3 days with her DAD! at HER cabin! She babysits for his mom and dad. (A had a little bro about 6 - he was an oops baby) sometimes. SHE was at his grandmas funeral last spring, she rode with HIM. He told me it was just family attending. She was at his house for a while on Easter Sunday. The blue sweatshirt he wears alot was from her, when he got a bunch of new cds, they were a gift from her, his Carhart jacket and pants? From her! They have always kept in touch, he is ALWAYS there for her and vice versa. She would not hang around cuz of me. She didnt want to cause problems for me, what a bitch. She knew all along that the minute she wnated hiim back, he was a phone call away. I guess they have been talking ALOT more lately and have spent alot of time together. He is in the process of buying 80 acres of land from his father. He never told me that. I guess she was there when they walked the land and helped mark the trees that are coming down!! Its like he is doing this for her!! Well, he is. Everything he has done has been for her, Its like I was just something to do while she grew up. What a prick. and the thing is? He told her just last week that he has always loved her and always will. steph - she's not a bitch and she's not the problem here. He is. He used you, yes, and that sucks, but it's all him. He's the one to blame, because he's the one that pretended to be available. Throw this one back - he's still very much involved with her and you don't need that drama.
Krytie TV Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 I've done what he did. To me it was a comfort thing. But if he is breaking up with you to do it, there's a little more there. What it should show you is a lack of commitment to the two of you on his part.
Author steph11 Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 He called me last nite and askd why I dumped his stuff at her house, well her parents house. He said he would have came and got it, and that there was no need for me to involve HER parents in this! he said he was sorry how things turned out and came right out and told me point blank that while he does care for me, he does not LOVE me, he loves her, he always has and no matter how hard he tried to move on, he couldnt. That she was and is the perfect girl for him and that HE WAITED FOR HER!!!! He knew she was not ready for a serious relationship and so he ****ing WAITED for her!! Can you believe that? He said he remembers the very first day he met her, he even remembers what she had on!! What kind of guy does that? He said he took one look at her (keep in mind she was 14 at the time, he was 16) and he just knew, he knew that she was the one. And this was 4 ****ing years ago! These two have been dancing around each other for 4 years! They did date for a while, BUT her parents were not to thrilled with a 14 year old girl going on car dates! How lame, I mean step into the current century for gods sakes! He could go hang at her house, but she could NOT go on car dates. Any how I guess things got real intense with them quick and she got scared, poor little virginal baby and she backed off. She told him she was not ready for that kind of relatinship, k, come on, she was in high school by this time, who isnt ready for all that making out and dating and ****? So HE WAITED for her! She graduated last June, and guess what? HE WAS at her graduation, WHILE HE WAS DATING ME! He took her out to dinner before it, then actually watched the stupid commencement. When she got in a car accident last April, she was in the hospital over nite for observation, (the bitch was fine, a little bump on the head, boo hoo) He stayed at the hospital all nite and never left her side!! He was the first person she called! Not her parents (I guess cuz she was nervous to tell her mama that she just crashed her moms car) He called her parents and told them where she was and what happend, he even made arrangements to have the car towed to her dads friends shop! And what is the deal with him being all buddy with her daddy? That is weird, I guess her brother and A hauled in all the firewood for them for this winter, a huge pile that A and her brother cut and stacked for her dad. That is how they heat, with wood!! Can you say P O O R people???? If they are so poor, how come she still has horses? She still does that stupid rodeo stuff. They sure have a nice truck for that. I guess he and her dad get along great. When he cant move cuz of his back, I guess A and even A's father and brother have gone over to help them plow out there driveway and move snow from around the barns etc. in the winter time. What the hell? He didnt help us move snow. When we had those bad storms he had to go to his dads to help move snow there, ( his parents also have a huge spread, they have cattle, her family has a big farm too, only they have horses) then they would go help HER family. And all they got? Was a few beers and some homemade chili!! Her parents didnt even pay them! And A acts like that is no big deal, he said they are great people. Stupid country bumpkins is what I see. He bought her tires for her car, he keeps her car maintained, you know, the fluids and all that he even tunes it up for her! He paid her car insurance when her dad couldnt afford it. Last winter she didnt have the money to buy a season pass to some ski hill that she likes to snoboard at and HE bought it for her! Her parents are kind of poor, I guess her father broke his back and can only work part time, so he(A)takes care of her when ever he can. Her mom works full time and she works like 2 jobs and gives her mom money to help with groceries. So her parents are losers too, what kind of parent would take money from there daughter? Her brother also helps them alot. A says they are super nice people, and that her family is very close, how very Walton of them. You know that old show the Waltons? He is so protective of her too, he told me that if I want to be mad at him, fine, but to leave her out of it!! Are you kidding me? She ruined my relationship with the best guy I have ever dated! Someday I will let her have it. Then to top it all off, I met my friends last nite at the Ria, and guess who walks in? Anna!!! She didnt see me, but I saw her. All cutsie, and girly. What a drip. I hate her. She had on jeans, cowboyboots and a long underwear shirt with pearls and a ripped up old car hart jacket!! She looked like a welfare reject. I will say she is very very pretty, she has the 'face of an angel' as one of my friends said, great hair and bod, BUT she dresses like a hillbilly. Why do guys like that? She is cute but POOR!! At least I dress nice, with stylish clothes and such. The guys at our table all thought she was either 'hot as hell' " or "God she is cute" they all think she is sweet and nice and funny and Gary, my friend since grade school said he would cut off his right nut for a chance at her. I told him to go for it. I hope he does, then maybe I wll get A back. I do blame her, If she would just go away my life would be good. All I could think of when I looked at her was that A wants HER. All I could think of was that he was kissing HER the night before, I cant stand her, I hate her, this jelousy is totally consuming me. Its all I think of. Him making love to her, it is killing me! Why her? And who the hell falls in love at 14 and 16? (ok, now they are 18 and 20 FYI) Did you know that she only dated a few guys through highschool? that she couldnt even afford to go to prom cuz they couldnt afford the dress?But she has a saddle for her horse that cost like $2500.00? That she basically is a country girl, and thinks nothing of it. She didnt care if she went or not. So on prom nite, she worked. What a loser. Dan (A/s friend) told me that now that A has her back, he will NOT let her go! The first thing he is going to build is a barn and what ever farm **** 'They' need, he wants to raise beef cattle (like his dad) and he wants her to be able to keep her horses at his house. Dan told me that A is totaly in love with this girl and she is totally in love with him. And that it has always been her, no matter who he was going out with, if Anna called him, he would drop anything and anybody and be right there for her. He has always refered to her as " MY Anna" Even his parents love her. I guess when they go out of town, Anna stays at their house to babysit his little brother and take care of the farm animals. I guess she is not intimidated by moving those big hay things around with a bobcat and cleaning out **** from a barn. Hilbilly. She is a hick. I dont care how cute she is, or how sweet, she is a man stealer and doesnt deserve him. Ok I am done ranting. I know, I know, I lost. I just needed to vent. I will get past this but when he came to get her last nite, the way he treated HER and looked at HER just killed me. He NEVER looked at me like that. Even dressed like a total hick, you would think she was dressed in Paris's finest gown the the way not only him, but other guys just drool over her. What is the big deal? I dont get it. When he kissed the back of her neck last nite, I wanted to jump accross the table and kick the crap out of her. She just blushed and he couldnt take his eyes off of her. But I am going to get over this. It just pisses me off. How some dumb, overly protected country hick (she was never allowed to go hang at the river where all the kids would hang when we were younger or she never hung out at the mall with the girls, her parents wouldnt let her, or she was never allowed at the parties we had you know the kegs and all the fun stuff NORMAL highschool people do) can get a guy like him. I dont get it. I think he is a fool. She is nothing.
Author steph11 Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate her.
Kamille Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Wow Steph, you're a really good writer... but one of the thing about your writing is that you actually make her sound really really cool, no matter how much you proclaim to hate her. I mean, from the money she gives her family to her pearl necklace to the skipped prom night... It's all very fairy tale-ish. Honestly, you have me wondering if this isn't some brilliant creative writing experiment. But I'll assume it isn't. Good for you for ranting out here. But I hope you realize that hating somebody doesn't make them automatic bitches-*******s. you should take the focus of of her and unto him. It doesn't matter who she is, how pretty she is or how much of Mother Teresa's soul is possessing her. The one person who led you on and hurt you here is HIM. I have been in a situation slightly similar to yours, where a guy I was seeing whom I thought was perfect for me left me for his ex... And I know how it feels to wonder why he couldn't let go of her. The fact is, in your case as in mine, the fact is, these girls are not better or worst then us. But the problem is that our exes couldn't offer us what we deserved. You deserve someone who will love you for you. And there is someone out there.
Lyssa Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Wow! Steph, I'm sorry to say this but you have serious issues. It's not Anna or whatever her name is.
Author steph11 Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 This is no fairy tale! It is a nitemare for me! Yes she does sound like some mother ****ing theresa, miss goody two shoes, the whole thing. I am not kidding, she is a freaking goody goody. IT IS TRUE! As for my writing thanks I guess. Maybe I did make her seem better than she really is, but so what. I feel ugly, and unwanted right now and I am venting. I am sick to my stomache, I am angry, I am jelous, I am furious with him and her. I hate how when what ever happend to make her want him back he just dumped me like nothing. I am smart, I am going to school, I am not ugly, not at all. I have been told I have a beautiful smile, I am a great softball player, I love sports, I love to cook, I too have some great qualties. Not just her! I have a ton of friends. I like to have fun. I may not have to work like she does, BUT I have a job to. She is not some perfect person, not at all. And if I made it seem like that, sorry, I just feel like **** right now. She is not cool at all, she is a manstealing bitch. She KNEW I was dating him. She is no fairytale, this sucks for me. I am embarassed, I am humiliated and it hurts. Issues? Yea, right now I have some issues. I feel used, I feel like ****. I am VERY FREAKEN ANGRY. Maybe I am ranting to much, but I have no where else to go. I guess I do sound like a nut case, putting HER on some pedestal, as if she is better than me, when I am just as good as she is! I help at home to, I help with cleaning the house, I help my mom when she needs it. I am not an *******. I feel like my heart just got ripped out and stomped on. So maybe I am being dramatic, sorry. But I need to get this OUT!! I want to scream. I have to hold my head up at home and go about my life like I dont care. But inside I am dying. I hate this.
Author steph11 Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 OK, I read some of my previous posts. My dig about her being poor was mean. It is not her fault her dad was hurt. that made me look like an *******. If my dad was hurt and my family needed help, of course I would help. The prom thing is absolutely 100% true. She could NOT afford to buy a dress. That is why she didnt go!! and ok, so maybe I snickerd a little at that, but I was wrong to use that against her and make fun of her. She is NOT a goody goody either. Like I said in this first paragraph, if it was my dad who was hurt I would be doing the same thing she is. I am just soooooo jelous. How could he just walk away from me? just up and leave like I was nothing? Then to find out that they have been in contact ALL along? I feel like an idiot. I feel like everyone knew but me. I feel like people are laughing behind my back, I am mad.
Lyssa Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I am just soooooo jelous. How could he just walk away from me? just up and leave like I was nothing? Then to find out that they have been in contact ALL along? I feel like an idiot. I feel like everyone knew but me. I feel like people are laughing behind my back, I am mad. Thank you for admitting that! My thoughts exactly. You are jealous of her, you can't help it. It's him, Steph. Like some of them said, it's him - not you. Well, a bit of you. They have a lot of history together. Their families are friends so in a way, it's easier for them both. You should really move on.
soulseeker Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Hey Steph, I havent experienced anything exactly like this, but we all do know what it feels like to not feel like you are enough for someone....it sucks. And, I think first loves are a bitch. Seems like these two met and fell in love at a really dramatic time of life, before one really has perspective on life in general. So there are all of these dramatic feelings between the two of them. PLUS, her parents wouldnt really let her date him....that...is a shame. They probably both felt like they never really got a chance to see where the relationship would take them, so they held on to it. Best thing for you now, is to hold onto your dignity. I am sure he never planned to use you. You know what? Who even cares? Focus on yourself and getting past him. Be angry, sure. Feel used, sure. But do things to move on. Get rid of all the stuff you have of him, or put it in a box somewhere. Any songs that remind you of him, listen to them ad nasuem (sp?) until the association goes away. Worked for me. Good luck. Chin up. You are so gd young, if you think there are no more chances for you to fall in love, or he's the best you'll ever find, snap out of it. He wasnt! If he was, it would have been you that he looked at with love. You'll find a guy that has all the qualities you want and loves YOU!
Kamille Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 This is no fairy tale! It is a nitemare for me! Yes she does sound like some mother ****ing theresa, miss goody two shoes, the whole thing. I am not kidding, she is a freaking goody goody. IT IS TRUE! As for my writing thanks I guess. Maybe I did make her seem better than she really is, but so what. I feel ugly, and unwanted right now and I am venting. I am sick to my stomache, I am angry, I am jelous, I am furious with him and her. I hate how when what ever happend to make her want him back he just dumped me like nothing. I am smart, I am going to school, I am not ugly, not at all. I have been told I have a beautiful smile, I am a great softball player, I love sports, I love to cook, I too have some great qualties. Not just her! I have a ton of friends. I like to have fun. I may not have to work like she does, BUT I have a job to. She is not some perfect person, not at all. And if I made it seem like that, sorry, I just feel like **** right now. She is not cool at all, she is a manstealing bitch. She KNEW I was dating him. She is no fairytale, this sucks for me. I am embarassed, I am humiliated and it hurts. Issues? Yea, right now I have some issues. I feel used, I feel like ****. I am VERY FREAKEN ANGRY. Maybe I am ranting to much, but I have no where else to go. I guess I do sound like a nut case, putting HER on some pedestal, as if she is better than me, when I am just as good as she is! I help at home to, I help with cleaning the house, I help my mom when she needs it. I am not an *******. I feel like my heart just got ripped out and stomped on. So maybe I am being dramatic, sorry. But I need to get this OUT!! I want to scream. I have to hold my head up at home and go about my life like I dont care. But inside I am dying. I hate this. I hope you know that we are here to let you vent so vent away vent away! Plus I like this line a venting a lot more because here you are stating the fact that you are just as good as she is. And yeah, what he did is incredibly unfair to you. But take my word for it, no matter how crappy you feel now, there will come a day when somehow this will all make sense. Maybe you will realize that you'd much rather not live on a cattle ranch thank you. And I bet you one day your ex will do the same thing mine did: he pulled me aside years after the fact to tell me how much I had meant to him and to apologize for what he did. I said: thanks, you meant a lot to me too, but I am much happier without you. And let it be known that even though by now I don't care - and even think it's sad for them - my ex and 'the love of his life' broke up a few months ago.
Replicant Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate her. No! You should adore this woman, she rid you of a total loser in the end. Think of it like trash collection, only you didn't put the garbage out that day...It found it's own way to the curb.
Author steph11 Posted October 4, 2007 Author Posted October 4, 2007 I still cant eat or sleep very well. I feel like I have a lump of coal in my stomache and all I can think of is him with her. I need to do something to get them off my mind. I did ALL my homework last nite, studied till like 1 in the morning. Then I drove out by his house to see if his truck was home, it was. Her car was not there, so that was good, I drove by her house and it was home. So I know they were not together last nite, that made me feel better. But I cant keep doing that I know, it will only make me feel worse. I called him when I got home to talk, HE said that HE couldnt trust me! I cheated on him once or twice well, ok twice while he was at basics, but I thought we got past all that. He said that he just has never felt the same for me since. He said he never cheated on me with Anna EVER, that they talked alot, but that he NEVER made a move on her at all. He also said that he could never stay with a woman who was unfaithfull. No matter what my excuses were. Ok, so maybe they werent fooling around, but they sure never lost contact with each other, I think that is worse. Sex is just sex and can mean nothing, just doing it to do it, so what I was drunk and it just happend, I have never done anything like that since. He said that he never thought of us as long term any how. We had alot of fun, but that his feelings for me were different than his feelings for her. He then said that when she called him about a month ago, she asked if he would come and get her he just knew that he couldnt let her go again, and that was that. HE DID NOT WANT TO LOSE HER AGAIN. His exact words. How sweet. He said he tried many times to put her in the past and move on, then he would see her and he would just fall all over again. So I never had him really at all. All along his heart has been with her. The thing that sucks,is EVERYONE WARNED ME!! Everyone knew she was hoovering in the background. No one is surprised that she just waltzed right in and yanked him away from me. All his friends said it was going to happen someday anyhow, that even they could see it. Even his ex girlfriends said the same thing, if she is at a same party or what ever, he will watch her the whole time, and she him!! He hated anyone guy she ever dated. I don't know what she thought of me or the other girls. She was always there for him and vice versa, its just that her parents were so ****ing strict about her dating and what she could and couldnt do. She has 3 older brothers who have slept with about every girl in a 100 mile radius, (Not really, but they sure used and dumped alot of girls in there days) I think the worse those boys were, the stricter they were with her. How hypocritical is that? Either way, I did not lose. How could I lose something that was never mine to begin with. I wish he would have been more upfront about her to me from the beginning. But, everyone else sure was. They all KNEW he loved her, but she couldnt date till she was 16 and by then I guess she did not want the drama of a boyfriend and needed to keep her grades up for grants and scholarships for school. I did too! And I still had time to date and all. Oh, well, it feels better to just rant, I live in a small town and have to act like I dont care about any of this. So thanks for letting me rant and rave like this.
underpants Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 I would suggest you stop driving around their homes. That is going to be interperted so badly if you are noticed. Just focus on your studies and move on. You cheated on him and I can understand how the switch gets flipped off after that. He should have ended it with you then but at least he did end it before crossing the line and cheating on you. Who knows about this other girl. That is not your concern. Just accept that it is over and move on. Easier said then done, but with time and distance you will get there.
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