DateAnalyzer Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 I met a girl on friday off Craiglist and we exchange photos and started chatting and I had not heard from her all weekend. So I sent a mail last night before I went to sleep and said-"how was your weekend" I wake up this morning and saw she replied and when I opened the email she said- "let me know if you ard looking for sex or anything sexual because I had a date this weekend and this guy tried to have sex with me so if that's what you ate about then I'm not going to be interested" So was it fair for her to take it out on me that she went to a guy's house or he came to her house to soon? This is the kind of sh*t that makes me want to stay in the fetish world
lino Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 I don;t think it was fair. I think you should meet girls in different ways also, not just online.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 1, 2007 Author Posted October 1, 2007 I don;t think it was fair. I think you should meet girls in different ways also, not just online. And he probably thought he had a chanceat sex beccause she went to his house. That was her dumbness. I don't take a woman seriously who come to my APT on the first meeting either
curiousnycgirl Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 It all depends on what you are hoping will happen. If you liked this girl, then this other guy has given you a golden opportunity. You can write back that you are simply hoping to get to know her better, and see where things go. Advise her that not all guys are like that - yourself as a perfect example. If you don't like her - then take her note as an opportunity to just blow her off.
allina Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Did she say "I met a guy on cl for the first time this weekend, went to his house and he tried having sex with me" If not this is all assumption on your part. She could have known him before. Also saying he was just after sex does not mean she went to his place, guys can try to get you in to bed at a restaurant, coffee shop, anywhere. It's about a guys attitude.
tanbark813 Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 guys can try to get you in to bed at a restaurant, The last time I banged a girl at a restaurant I got steak sauce all over my balls.
allina Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 The last time I banged a girl at a restaurant I got steak sauce all over my balls. Oh you know what I mean. No matter where a date takes place a guy can make it clear that all he really cares about is getting her in to bed afterwards.
Trimmer Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Did you reply to her ad, or did she reply to yours? And what did the initial ad say, whether it was hers or yours?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 1, 2007 Author Posted October 1, 2007 Did she say "I met a guy on cl for the first time this weekend, went to his house and he tried having sex with me" If not this is all assumption on your part. She could have known him before. Also saying he was just after sex does not mean she went to his place, guys can try to get you in to bed at a restaurant, coffee shop, anywhere. It's about a guys attitude. Only a guy who is mentally disturbed would try to have sex with a women at a coffee shop. And also I'm not supposed to hear about a date she went on two days ago. So I made a decision tonight to not continue talking to her any further
Art_Critic Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Well... Are you looking for sex with her or for something sexual ?.. if you are then I would think her email was right on target... You have to be tougher than this dude.. show her some game.. make her believe that you are not like that guy she met that wanted sex only and then you will have a shot at having sex with her Show her some game and bring your A game to the table..
Trialbyfire Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Correct me if I'm wrong but she appears to be a girl that wants a relationship, instead of just sex. Isn't that what she said? Is this so difficult to grasp?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 1, 2007 Author Posted October 1, 2007 Well... Are you looking for sex with her or for something sexual ?.. if you are then I would think her email was right on target... You have to be tougher than this dude.. show her some game.. make her believe that you are not like that guy she met that wanted sex only and then you will have a shot at having sex with her Show her some game and bring your A game to the table.. I decided to move on, I just wasn't feeling that strange email. And what was so dumb about the email was if i was a guy looking for sex I could have just easily LIED and said I wasn't. So I didn't see the purpose of telling me that
Art_Critic Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 But all guys want sex from the girl they are trying to date.. they know it.. you know it and it is really all about how comfortable you make them feel about it... If you make them fell comfortable that it isn't a high priority then you get the prize... You don't have to lie a or be someone you are not.. It is all about how you present yourself... that is how you beat out the competition
underpants Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 DA, What is it that you hope to accompolish by dating? What is the goal, for you?
Star Gazer Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 The last time I banged a girl at a restaurant I got steak sauce all over my balls. Only a guy who is mentally disturbed would try to have sex with a women at a coffee shop. And also I'm not supposed to hear about a date she went on two days ago. So I made a decision tonight to not continue talking to her any further Or you're not supposed to, eh? Since when do you make all the rules? If you stop talking to her, you'll confirm her suspicions.
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