starlite Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 My bf and I broke up last week after a 2.5 year relationship. It was mutual...I am very upset, and suprisingly it is hitting him VERY hard as well. When he came by yesterday to drop off his key he was cried a little...I didnt, but I wanted to. Do you think that I have now made him feel worse...cause I am feeling guilty! Also, We had been fighting a LOT! About his going out habits and such. Also, I am not over a few lies he had told me, I think it caused a trust issue. Do you guys think, if we compromise on our issues and we decide to get back together...that it is a better idea to get back together, but live seperately...or move back in together. Is living seperate too much of a step back....and if we do work things out, should I not let him back in until he is ready to propose?????? PS...WE may not even get back together but I am feeling VERY upset and he is too and who knows what will happen. Thanks!!!
jcster Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Feeling bad about breaking up does not mean you should get back together! And, I've found that once you break up with someone, the relationship is pretty much over. If you try and put it back together, it's just going to be on life support until the next blow-up. It's better to end it now.
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