Triston Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 My girlfriend broke up with me over the summer, just before we came back to uni. We living together in a house of 6, but i really still love her, i'm finding it hard to move on. I've told her how i feel and she no longer feels the same way. But i've always had this hope that maybe she would rekindle those feelings and would get back together. But last night she told me that she is starting a new relationship with some guy i don't know. Getting unreturned love is like torture and i need help on how to move on quickly.
Author Triston Posted October 1, 2007 Author Posted October 1, 2007 I can't leave, i'd have nowhere to go and i've already paid lots of rent
lovelorcet Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 That just sounds like a lame excuse to me. How fun is it going to be when she has her new dude there and you hear them having sex?
Davey McG Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 It would really be a good idea to move out No good can come out of living with an ex - I lived with a couple who'd broken up when I was a student and it was damaging to both of them. It was pretty upsetting for everyone else living there too.
Reactor Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Ouch! Sounds like the same sort of situation I'd of been in if I'd decided to live with my ex at Uni. All I can say to you mate is, first off, you should never, ever live with someone you are dating at Uni, or even close to them (I mean under 5 minutes walk). I've done it, NEVER EVER AGAIN! It feels like your married and each persons faults are multiplied 100x. And generally it ends in tears because both people in the relationship are generally young and foolish and then one realises they aren't ready for this sort of thing, or gets caught up with the bad things and poof, its all over. Onto your problem, if you really can't move out then I sugguest you spend as little time as possible at your house/flat. But realistically, thats unfair to you, because well, your paying for the place. There is a way you can get out of this mess though, often Unis offer you a chance to swap your room with someone else. So it might be an idea to go see your Uni housing department. Explain the situation and say you're not happy with it and say its going to have a detremental affect on your studies. They'll find some way to help you - trust me. Good Luck, Reactor
blind_otter Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Move out. Really, if you can swing it, do it. If not, you're in for rough seas, my friend.
ijustwannago Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 tell her to GET OUT!!! If it's so easy for her move on then she can get out too. good luck!
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