amaysngrace Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 doesn't mean you can't look at the menu! Okay so today I worked up at my friends' boardwalk store. All their staff went back to college so they are shorthanded. And it's still fairly busy. Anyway I met two guys. One is a personal trainer who owns the parking lot where I parked today. He let me park for free and then he came up to the store where I was working. Next was this guy who works in a pizza place and has for the past eight years but today was his last day there ever because he got his degree. He was going to come back when he got done but he didn't get off work until 7 and I was done at 5. I didn't go down to see him when I got done. Is it normal to think about other guys while you have a boyfriend? Does it mean I'm dissatisfied in my relationship? I thought things were going pretty well in my relationship and then today I start thinking about things too much again. Am I abnormal?
electric_sheep Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 People are who are in the biochemically charged initial throes of love/lust generally don't think about other people in a sexual manner. The brain in this initial "being in love" stage is in a state very similar to what addicts and obsessive compulsives experience, so there is little room for thought of others. Generally though, it is absolutely natural for people to occasionally meet others with whom they feel a little spark or chemistry with. After all, the world is full of wonderful and beautiful people, and every now and then one is fortunate enough to run across them. I think if it happens all the time, then it could be a sign that you are in fact LOOKING elsewhere, even if you don't realize it. This could be a sign you are not entirely content with your current relationship.
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