Magnatolia Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 Hey all, There's a girl at work who intrigued me. I'd be keen to be friends with her. She's very friendly and bubbly, but she doesn't talk to many people. I usually drop by her desk and say hi. We start chatting for a few minutes (she has a pretty busy job) but the other day we both had hardly any work so we chatted a couple of times, maybe 15-20 mins each. We've had lunch once, I suggested it for the next day. She said she'd get back to me. So the next morning she came over and she asked if I was still keen for lunch. She seemed excited about it. Very friendly, we chatted and laughed heaps over lunch. She seems like the type of person who has a quiet weekend. My weekends are quiet too so I was thinking maybe I could do something with her one weekend. So what do you think? Have I made a good enough impression to suggest something outside of work? Or just keep what I'm doing for a few more days. Thanks
glittergurl Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 Seriously, it sounds like nothing. But I will say this: if she's single and you like her, then I see nothing wrong with meeting up with her during weekends if she wants. And then who knows, she might start to really like you. But as far as lunch is concerned: she just sounds friendly with no other motives at all.
Green Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 so u want to have quiet weekend togather eh... Well so far sounds like nothing but go head and make some moves see what happens
Author Magnatolia Posted October 1, 2007 Author Posted October 1, 2007 I'm only keen on making a new friend out of her, someone who I can hang with on the weekends. I've learnt from past mistakes that suggesting something outside of work too early never works. So I'm treading carefully so the same thing doesn't happen again.
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