sweetbutcheeky Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 I don't ask guys out, so agree to go out when I am perused. I go out with a guy, I am attracted to him physically and personality ... he ends up to be playing gave and full of BS and lies and afraid of commitment. I go out with a guy that is all into me, wants the things I want in life I want and wants me to be his GF, but something is missing, he annoys me, not attracted to him in the same way as the other guys physically. 99% of the time it's been scenario one. Why can't there be all in one? Attracted to him physically and personality, he is all into me, wants the things I want in life I want and wants me to be his GF and treats me like a queen. (I don't mean gifts and that kinda thing)
Aintayankee Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 Maybe that something more is only found with hot guy philosophers......I wonder what plato would say.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 30, 2007 Author Posted September 30, 2007 Maybe that something more is only found with hot guy philosophers......I wonder what plato would say. Na, they are over rated.
garnet Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 Well, I'm sure this is no consolation but I have the same problem. I thought I had found a truly special guy a few months ago...he pursued me, was very nervous around me, left me flowers on my doorstep, etc. He finally got up the nerve to ask me out and I said yes. Then he disappeared before the date even had a chance to happen. Go figure. Sometimes it seems like they just like the chase. All I can say is that I hear enough success stories to believe that it CAN happen. Maybe it just isn't our "time" yet. It's really hard to keep faith in the idea though, I know!
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 30, 2007 Author Posted September 30, 2007 Well, I'm sure this is no consolation but I have the same problem. I thought I had found a truly special guy a few months ago...he pursued me, was very nervous around me, left me flowers on my doorstep, etc. He finally got up the nerve to ask me out and I said yes. Then he disappeared before the date even had a chance to happen. Go figure. Sometimes it seems like they just like the chase. All I can say is that I hear enough success stories to believe that it CAN happen. Maybe it just isn't our "time" yet. It's really hard to keep faith in the idea though, I know! At least I'm not the only one, but without seeing it for myself I don't know if I can believe it can happen.
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